Allison Withers

Allison Withers — Couples Counselling Rochester

Location: Relationship Counselling Kent, Rochester
BACP Registered | Level 5 Diploma in Couples and Relationship Therapy

Quick Summary

Here’s a short introduction to Allison and how she can help, you can read more about her below.

Allison is a warm and insightful relationship counsellor who helps couples rebuild trust, communication, and emotional connection. She offers a calm and supportive space where both partners can express themselves freely and feel truly heard. Allison’s integrative, person-centred approach draws on Imago Relationship Therapy, Emotionally Focused Therapy, and CBT-informed tools. Whether you’re struggling with conflict, loss of intimacy, or uncertainty about your future together, Allison will help you understand unhelpful patterns, improve empathy, and move forward with clarity.

Book an appointment with Allison at Relationship Counselling Kent – Rochester

More from Allison..

Hello, I’m Allison, a fully qualified counsellor and member of the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP).

I offer a warm, non-judgemental space where you and your partner can explore what’s happening in your relationship and begin to make sense of it together. Whether you’re trying to rebuild trust, improve communication, or decide what’s next for your relationship, I’ll support you both in understanding the emotions and patterns that keep you stuck.

My approach is integrative and person-centred, drawing on Imago Relationship Therapy, Emotionally Focused Therapy, and CBT-based tools. I’ll tailor each session to meet your specific needs, helping you gain clarity, confidence, and a deeper sense of connection — both with yourself and your partner.

I understand that not every couple comes to therapy to stay together. Sometimes, the most caring outcome is to part with understanding and respect. Whatever your circumstances, my aim is to help you move forward with compassion and greater self-awareness.

Background/Experience

Before becoming a counsellor, I worked in both corporate and charitable settings, including Mind, Place2Be, Citizens Advice, and a domestic abuse charity. These experiences shaped my empathetic, balanced, and down-to-earth style.

I’ve supported people through a wide range of relationship and personal challenges, helping them navigate conflict, build emotional resilience, and improve communication. My background has given me a deep understanding of the pressures couples face and how meaningful change can happen through open, compassionate dialogue.

How I can help you

In every session, you’ll both be heard equally, with compassion and objectivity, in a comfortable, judgement-free environment.

• Understand and change unhelpful patterns
  Together, we’ll explore and change the communication and behaviour patterns that lead to conflict or disconnection.
• Rebuild trust and emotional intimacy
  I’ll help you rebuild trust and closeness, so you can reconnect and strengthen your bond.
• Gain clarity about your relationship direction
  If you’re unsure whether to stay together or separate, I’ll support you in finding clarity and making choices that feel right for both of you.
• Improve empathy, communication, and resilience
  I’ll share practical tools and emotional insights to help you communicate more effectively and respond to each other with greater empathy and understanding.
• Create a safe and balanced space
  You’ll have a calm, neutral space to speak openly and feel understood

Qualifications

• Level 4 Diploma in Therapeutic Counselling
• Level 5 Diploma in Couples and Relationship Therapy
• Member of the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP)

Types of therapy offered

• Couples Therapy
• Relationship Counselling
• Marriage Counselling
• Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)
• Imago Relationship Therapy
• Person-Centred Therapy
• Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT)
• Anger Management Therapy
• Psychodynamic Therapy

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Ryan Anderson

Couples Therapy West Malling (Kings Hill)

Location: Relationship Counselling Kent, West Malling (Kings Hill)
MBACP Registered | Diploma in Therapeutic Counselling | Certificate in Relationship Counselling

Quick Summary: Here’s a short introduction to Ryan and how he can help — you can read more about him below.

Ryan is a warm, experienced relationship therapist offering sessions in Kings Hill and online. He supports couples experiencing communication problems, loss of trust, emotional distance, and recurring conflict. His calm, structured, and compassionate style helps partners move from tension and misunderstanding towards clearer communication, stronger connection, and a more supportive relationship. Ryan also works confidently with neurodivergent couples and those with different communication styles.

Click here to book an appointment with Ryan at Relationship Counselling Kent – West Malling (Kings Hill)

More from Ryan…

Hello, I’m Ryan Anderson, a qualified Counsellor and Therapist (MBACP). I offer couples counselling both in person and online. I’ll help you understand what’s happening between you , encourage you to talk more clearly, and reconnect with less conflict and more compassion.

I tailor sessions to your relationship rather than using a rigid approach. My aim is to help you understand each other better and create space for trust, empathy, and emotional closeness to grow again. I’ve supported couples through infidelity, communication difficulties, family pressures, grief, addiction, intimacy challenges, and differences in emotional or processing styles, including neurodivergence.

My sessions are calm, respectful, and balanced, giving both partners the space to express themselves and feel heard.

Background and Experience

Before becoming a therapist, I worked for many years in education, training, and senior leadership roles, supporting people to develop confidence, resilience, and wellbeing. This experience continues to shape how I work with couples today.

For over ten years I have taken NHS referrals alongside my private practice. I’ve also had therapy myself, so I understand how important it is to feel safe and supported when opening up. I complete ongoing CPD, follow BACP ethical guidelines, and I’m fully ICO and DBS registered.

How I Can Help You

• Communicate more clearly: I’ll help you talk and listen in a calmer, more constructive way.
• Rebuild trust: We’ll move through past hurts gently and safely.
• Reduce frustration: I’ll help you spot patterns so you can understand each other better.
• Strengthen connection: Together, we’ll build emotional closeness and support.
• Find direction: Whether you want to reconnect or gain clarity, I’ll guide you with balanced, practical support.

Qualifications

• Diploma in Therapeutic Counselling
• Certificate in Relationship Counselling – The Institute of Couples Therapy
• Certificate in Integrative Counselling Skills
• ILM Level 5 Leadership and Management
• Over 10 years experience taking NHS referrals
• Registered Member of the BACP (MBACP)
• ICO Registered
• Enhanced DBS Checked

Types of Therapy Offered

• Couples Therapy
• Marriage Counselling
• Emotionally Focused Therapy
• Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT)
• Anger Management
• Trauma Therapy
• LGBTQ+ Couples Counselling
• Psychodynamic Therapy
• Person-Centred Therapy
• OCD Therapy
• Anxiety and Depression Support
• Bereavement Counselling
• Career Counselling
• Imago Relationship Therapy

If you would like to make an appointment with Ryan for couples therapy West Malling (Kings Hill), please use the ‘Book Now’ button below.

Joanne Paine

Joanne Paine  — Couples Counsellor

Location: Relationship Counselling Kent, Tonbridge
BACP Registered | Accredited Diploma in Humanistic Integrative Counselling and Psychotherapy

Quick Summary: Here’s a short introduction to Joanne and how she can help — you can read more about her below.

Joanne is a warm, down-to-earth relationship counsellor with over eight years’ experience supporting couples, individuals, and families. Based in Tonbridge, she offers a safe and supportive space to talk openly, explore what’s not working, and rebuild connection and trust. Her approach is gentle yet practical, helping couples move forward with more understanding, compassion, and confidence. Clients often describe Joanne as calm, honest, and deeply empathetic — someone who makes both partners feel equally heard and respected.

👉 Book an appointment with Joanne at Relationship Counselling Kent – Tonbridge

More from Joanne…

Hello, I’m Joanne. I’m a qualified relationship counsellor with over eight years’ experience supporting individuals, couples, and families. I’m a registered member of the BACP and have worked with people for more than 20 years.

My approach to therapy is warm, honest, and down-to-earth. I believe that, with the right support, all couples can gain a clearer understanding of their relationship and find a way forward that feels right for them. Whether you’re going through a difficult time, feel disconnected, or want to part ways with care and respect, I’ll support you both through the process.

In our sessions, I create a non-judgemental space where you can talk openly and feel truly heard. You’ll have the chance to explore what’s not working, but also to recognise and build on the strengths in your relationship. My aim is to help you move forward with more confidence, clarity, and connection.

Qualifications

• Accredited Diploma in Humanistic Integrative Counselling and Psychotherapy
• Certificate in Couples Therapy
• Diploma in Clinical Supervision
• Certificate in Trauma
• Rainbow Baby Specialist Training
• Accredited Practitioner with the Foundation of Infant Loss

Background and Experience

Before qualifying as a therapist, I worked in the emergency services for over 20 years. This gave me a deep understanding of trauma, stress, cultural and societal differences, and the resilience people develop in challenging situations.

I’ve also worked in both a charitable organisation and a local hospice, where I supported clients facing bereavement, mental health difficulties, addiction, and other complex emotional challenges. These roles gave me valuable experience working with both individuals and couples during some of the most difficult moments in life.

I’m also an Ambassador for the Foundation of Infant Loss and have completed their Rainbow Baby Specialist Training. I’m listed on their accredited practitioner register and continue to support families through grief, pregnancy loss, and healing.

How I Can Help You

• Create a safe space for open communication: You will both feel seen, heard, respected, and valued. I’ll help you talk honestly and listen to each other with more understanding and compassion.

• Improve the way you communicate: You’ll learn practical tools to reduce conflict, express your needs more clearly, and feel more emotionally connected.

• Strengthen the positives in your relationship: We’ll focus on what you do well as a couple so you can rebuild your connection from a place of appreciation and shared strengths.

• Explore how the past may be influencing the present: Together we’ll look at how early life experiences such as trauma, emotional neglect, or control may be affecting your current relationship.

• Support you in reconnecting on a deeper level: Through greater understanding of each other’s feelings and needs, you will feel more able to express yourselves and rebuild emotional closeness.

Types of Therapy Offered

• Couples Therapy
• Marriage Counselling
• Bereavement Counselling
• Infant Loss Support
• Trauma Therapy
• Anxiety Therapy
• Depression Counselling
• Anger Management Therapy
• Young Person Therapy (11+)
• Child Therapy (5+)

If you would like to make a booking with Joanne for couples therapy Tonbridge. Please eiher use this link or press the ‘book now‘ button below

Mark Reumel

Couple Counselling Maidstone

Mark Reumel — Couples Counsellor

Location: Relationship Counselling Kent, Maidstone
NCPS Accredited | Advanced Diploma in Psychotherapeutic Counselling

Quick Summary: Here’s a short introduction to Mark and how he can help — you can read more about him below.

Mark is a warm, insightful relationship therapist with over a decade’s experience supporting couples and individuals. Based in Maidstone, he offers a safe space to explore what’s really going on in your relationship — whether you are working to reconnect, improve communication, or part ways more respectfully. Mark draws on a range of therapeutic approaches, including Transactional Analysis and Emotionally Focused Therapy, to help you reflect on patterns, build mutual empathy, and move forward with clarity. Clients often describe him as grounded, understanding, and skilled at helping both partners feel equally heard.

👉 Book an appointment with Mark at Relationship Counselling Kent – Maidstone

More from Mark..

Hello, I’m Mark, an experienced relationship counsellor with a commitment to helping couples and individuals navigate the complexities of their relationships.

Since achieving my Advanced Diploma in Psychotherapeutic Counselling in 2013, I have had the privilege of guiding hundreds of couples through a wide range of relationship issues. My goal is to support you in fostering deeper understanding, more meaningful communication, and stronger emotional connections.

If you are looking for help in separating, I can also assist you in navigating this process with respect and understanding, ensuring a more amicable outcome for both of you.

Relationships, whether personal or professional, have a profound effect on our overall wellbeing. By carefully listening, understanding, and analysing relationship dynamics, I will create a safe and confidential space for you to explore how  you communicate and relate to one another. My goal is to help you build stronger connections, promoting peace and harmony in their relationships. If that is what you are hoping to achieve.

I will help you reflect on behaviour patterns and interactions, offering feedback that encourages self-awareness and growth. Through self-reflection, you will  become more conscious of how you think and act, leading to more positive outcomes in your relationship.

Using relatable examples and analogies, I will guide  you both in understanding how your words and actions impact the other. I also help you express your views in ways that foster understanding and minimise hurt, frustration, or offence. Additionally, I assist couples in recognising the external influences that shape their perceptions of what a relationship should or shouldn’t be.

I have held a professsional membership The National Counselling and Psychotherapy Society since 2013 and practice  in accordance with their ethical guidelines.

I welcome couples and individals from all walks of life, including diverse backgrounds, sexual orientations, and ethnicities.

Qualifications

• Advanced Diploma in Psychotherapeutic Counselling
• Diploma in Hypnotherapy and Counselling Skills
• Specialised in Couples Counselling
• Certified in Suicide Prevention and Awareness
• NLP Communication Skills
• Transactional Analysis

Background and Experience

As a man, in my sixties, who has been married for over 35 years and the Father of two adult children, I have personal experience of the challenges that occur, within relationships.

Prior to my work in psychotherapy, I worked in the corporate world in various industries, with both sales and training management roles, including Catering, the Motor industry and the Commercial Interiors industry. My corporate work experience, with all its challenges and objectives has provided me with a wide knowledge of people’s differing thoughts, feelings and behaviours, enabling me to help people with the challenges that they face.

How I can help you

• Mutual respect: I’ll help you and your partner learn to respect differing viewpoints and understand each other better.
• Empathy: We’ll work together to develop empathy, a key component in any healthy, functioning relationship.
• Effective communication: Using proven techniques like Transactional Analysis, I’ll guide you to improve the way you communicate.
• Conflict resolution and intimacy: I can help with resolving conflicts, improving communication skills, addressing intimacy issues, and navigating family dynamics.
• Safe, non-judgemental space: In every session, you will  both be heard equally, with compassion and objectivity, in a comfortable, judgement-free environment.

Types of Therapy Offered

• Couples Therapy
• Marriage Counselling
• Relationship Counselling
• Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)
• Solution-Focused Brief Therapy (SFBT) for Couples
• Attachment-Based Therapy for Couples
• Psychosexual Therapy
• Integrative Couples Therapy
• Communication and Conflict Resolution Therapy
• Pre-Marital Counselling
• Solution-Focused Brief Therapy (SFBT) for Couples
• Attachment-Based Therapy for Couple
• .Transactional Analysis

If you would like to make an appointment to make an appointment to see Mark for couple counselling Maidstone please click here. Or use the ‘Book Now’ button below.

Jacquie Young

Relationship Counselling Ramsgate

Jacquie Young – Couples Counsellor

Location: Relationship Counselling Kent, Ramsgate.

Advanced Diploma in Couple Counselling | Relate-Trained Therapist | Over 15 Years’ Experience

Quick Summary: Here’s a short introduction to Jacquie and how she can help — you can read more about her below.

Jacquie is a highly experienced couples counsellor with over 15 years of practice, including training and work with Relate. Based in Ramsgate, she provides a safe, supportive space for couples to explore challenges such as communication breakdown, blended families, cultural differences, separation, and parenting through change.

Jacquie also has extensive experience working with children and young people, supporting families during times of transition. Known for her warmth, empathy, and active approach, Jacquie helps couples unpick repeating patterns, understand each other’s perspectives, and make changes that bring more balance, respect, and clarity to their relationship.

👉 Book an appointment with Jacquie at Relationship Counselling Kent – Ramsgate

More About Jacquie

My career has always centred around supporting people, in a wide range of environments. I worked as a lecturer in a large multi-cultural college in East London for around 14 years. Prior to that, I worked in local government focusing on issues such as homelessness, housing policy, and improving customer satisfaction.

I also have extensive experience in the voluntary sector, supporting people from diverse backgrounds and cultures. This has included work in mental health support, domestic violence, and reparative justice. I am also experienced in working with people with autism and their families, supporting them through challenging times.

Whilst at Relate, I worked alongside CAFCASS (Children and Family Court Advisory and Support Service), supporting separating and divorcing parents. As a qualified child counsellor, I was able to help parents focus on their children’s needs, and to reach agreements that enabled shared plans for moving forward.

How Relationship Counselling Can Help

Whatever your reasons for seeking relationship counselling, I understand that it can take courage. Asking somebody else for help can feel daunting, and I am always humbled when people make that first step.

If your relationship is going through a difficult time, or perhaps feels at crisis point, counselling can help. You may feel stuck in repetitive arguments or believe you have reached the point where you cannot go on as things are.

Over the years, many clients have told me they wish they had sought help sooner. They often thought they could sort things out themselves, only to feel frustrated that they kept “bumbling along”. Counselling offers the opportunity for a fresh perspective, a safe space to be listened to, and the chance to explore what change is possible.

How I Can Help

I believe that taking an honest look at your relationship will always be beneficial. Together, we will:

• Explore how you communicate with each other.
• Gain a clearer understanding of your needs and expectations.
• Work in a warm, supportive, and non-judgemental space.

Clients often tell me I put them at ease very quickly, even if one partner was reluctant to attend. Feedback is that people find it easy to open up and be honest in sessions.

I take an active role in therapy, not just listening but working with you to explore what is happening in your relationship. This may involve unpicking repetitive arguments to understand where patterns come from, and identifying what changes could help you move forward.

I use a variety of therapeutic approaches and will adapt to what best suits your unique situation. If for any reason you feel I am not the right therapist for you, I will happily support you in finding an alternative.

Ethical Standards

I subscribe to and work within the UKCP Code of Ethics and the BACP Ethical Framework. I also undertake regular professional development, clinical supervision, and peer supervision, and I hold full professional indemnity insurance.

Types of Therapy Offered

• Couples Counselling
• Marriage Counselling
• Relationship Counselling for Separated Couples
• Counselling for Blended Families
• Counselling for Same-Sex Relationships
• Child and Young Person Counselling
• Online Therapy (via Zoom)

👉 If you would like to make an appointment with Jacquie Young for relationship counselling in Ramsgate, please [click here] or use the Book Now button below.

Claire Draper

Couple Therapy Erith

Claire Draper — Couples Counsellor

Location: Relationship Counselling Kent, Erith
BACP Registered | CPCAB Level 4 Diploma in Therapeutic Counselling

Quick Summary: Here’s a short introduction to Claire and how she can help — you can read more about her below.

Claire is a compassionate, experienced relationship counsellor offering couples therapy at our Erith practice. With over nine years of experience, she helps couples improve communication, reconnect emotionally, and work through challenges in a calm and non-judgemental space. Claire takes time to understand your relationship dynamics and goals, supporting you to explore what’s not working and how to move forward. Whether you are feeling stuck, resentful, or unsure what the next step should be, she’ll help you gain clarity and support you both equally to feel heard, respected, and understood.

👉 Book an appointment with Claire at Relationship Counselling Kent – Erith

More from Claire…

Hello, my name is Claire Draper and I am an experienced relationship counsellor based at Relationship Counselling Kent’s Erith practice. I’m a qualified Counsellor and Psychotherapist and a member of the BACP (British Association of Counselling Psychotherapists). I am qualified to CPCAB Diploma level 4 in a ‘Therapeutic Counselling’. I have over 9 years’ experience as a couple’s therapist and have built a solid foundation in a variety of therapeutic techniques

The first step into couple therapy

For some people starting relationship counselling can feel quite daunting. This is often because couples don’t know what to expect or are maybe unsure about what they would like to achieve out of the relationship therapy. However, please rest assured, I pride myself on creating a safe, warm and calm environment to help you feel completely at ease.

Our first meeting is about getting to know each other and building a rapport. I will take time to understanding your unique needs, expectations and goal of the counselling. Together, we will establish a relationship based on openness, trust and respect. There’s no rush, we will work at a pace that is comfortable for you both.

My approach to relationship counselling

I will actively listen to your thoughts and feelings without judgment.  I will help you emotionally recenter the relationship and unpick the details to help you find a way forward.  My confidential space which will allow you both the opportunity to explore the issues within your relationship, from your individual perspectives. You will have the time to speak and listen and to try and understand each other’s point of view and feelings. This will assist in healing any underlying resentment which might be bubbling under the surface and stopping you moving forward. Together, we will discuss your goal for the relationship therapy and help you gain a greater understanding of yourself and each other.

My aim is to help you both identify and communicate your needs and expectations more clearly.  Which means, I will provide the right tools to help you both feel validated, understood and happier.

Ethical Standards:

As member of BACP, I uphold their ethical standards in my practice. I prioritise the well-being of my clients and engage in regular clinical supervision while also maintaining professional indemnity insurance. Your trust and welfare are of utmost importance to me, and I am committed to providing ethical and responible therapy services.

If you would like to make an appointment to see Claire for couple therapy Erith. Click here to book an appointment. Book Now

Sharon Peach

Couples Counselling Staplehurst

Sharon Peach – Couples Counsellor & Psychosexual Therapist

Location: Relationship Counselling Kent, Staplehurst.

Accredited Member of BACP | Registered Member of COSRT | Over 10 Years’ Experience

Quick Summary: Here’s a short introduction to Sharon and how she can help — you can read more about her below.

Sharon is an experienced therapist with over 10 years in private practice, working with both couples and individuals. Based in Staplehurst, she offers a warm, supportive, and non-judgemental space to explore emotional, relational, and psychosexual issues. As an Accredited BACP Counsellor and Registered COSRT Therapist, Sharon specialises in couples counselling and psychosexual therapy, helping with challenges such as loss of desire, painful sex, erectile difficulties, and communication breakdowns. Known for her compassionate and integrative approach, Sharon tailors therapy to each couple, creating a safe space where both partners feel heard and supported to make lasting positive change.

👉 Book an appointment with Sharon at Relationship Counselling Kent – Staplehurst

More from Sharon

My name is Sharon Peach, and I am a professionally qualified therapist with over 10 years’ experience working with both couples and individuals.

I am an Accredited Member of the British Association of Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) and a Registered Member of the College of Sexual and Relationship Therapists (COSRT).

I work from a comfortable, private therapy room in the heart of the Kent countryside in the village of Staplehurst.

My approach is warm, friendly, and non-judgemental. It is important to me that I create a safe space for you to explore your issues, so that together we can create positive change. I am an integrative therapist, which means I tailor my work to suit the unique needs of each client or couple.

When working with couples, I can facilitate those difficult conversations to help resolve conflict, strengthen connection, and support you in making healthier behavioural changes.

Psychosexual Issues

I am fully trained in psychosexual therapy and can help with a wide range of difficulties including:

• Erectile dysfunction
• Rapid or delayed ejaculation
• Painful sex
• Vaginismus
• Low desire or arousal

As part of this work, I offer a full psychosexual assessment which explores past experiences, traumas, childhood messages about sex, kinks, and sexual preferences. I also have training in LGBTQ+ affirmative practice.

Qualifications

• Level 4 Diploma in Therapeutic Counselling
• Diploma in Psychosexual and Relationship Therapy
• Diploma in Person-Centred Therapeutic Counselling
• Diploma in CBT
• Professional Certificate in Couples Therapy (Transactional Analysis theory)

Background and Experience

My decision to train as a therapist was inspired by my own experience of how powerful counselling can be during a personal crisis.

Some years ago, my life went through an extremely turbulent period, with several major challenges happening in quick succession. I felt overwhelmed and in need of something steady to hold on to. Counselling became that anchor.

Therapy not only helped me cope at the time, but also gave me tools I still use today to navigate life’s ups and downs. I gained a much deeper understanding of myself, how my past shaped my ability to handle stress, resolve conflict, and relate to others.

This experience inspired me to offer the same support to others. I have now been in full-time private practice for over 10 years. Before that, I worked as a counsellor in a secondary school and a GP practice.

How I Can Help You

• You will have a safe, supportive space where you both feel truly heard.
• I will offer care and thoughtful reflections to help you connect past experiences with present challenges.
• Sessions are flexible and tailored to your individual and relational needs.
• Together, we will explore emotional, relational, or life-stage issues.
• I will support you in expressing your needs clearly, navigating difficult conversations, and rebuilding connection.
• I offer specialist psychosexual therapy in a sensitive and non-judgemental way.

Whether you are coming as an individual or as a couple, my aim is to build a trusting therapeutic relationship where you can reflect, explore, and discover new ways forward.

Types of Therapy Offered

• Couple Counselling
• Marriage Counselling
• Relationship Therapy
• Psychosexual Therapy
• LGBTQ+ Couple Counselling
• Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT)
• Anger Management Therapy
• OCD Therapy
• Depression Counselling
• Anxiety Therapy
• Bereavement Counselling
• Person-Centred Therapy
• Trauma Therapy

👉 If you would like to make an appointment with Sharon Peach for couples counselling in Staplehurst, please [click here or use the Book Now button below.

Samantha Gibson

Couple Therapy Dartford

Hello, my name is Samantha Gibson and I’m a fully qualified and experienced Relationship Counsellor, having trained with Relate 7 years ago. I’m also a registered member of the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP).

I offer a warm, supportive and confidential counselling space, where you can feel safe to talk openly. I’ll be alongside you throughout the process, helping you explore what’s working well in your relationship and areas you want to  positively improve.

Together, we will look at how to move away from unhelpful patterns and towards better communication and understanding. You won’t be judged or blamed, my role is to support you in building self-awareness and learning new, healthier ways of being in relationship.

I’ll help you manage conflict in ways that feel constructive rather than damaging, creating space for repair and growth. It’s time to break free from the negative cycles couples can get stuck in and find new ways to reconnect and feel united.

I look forward to guiding you safely through the counselling process. See you soon : -)

Qualifications

CPCAB Level 5 Diploma in Relationship Counselling
CPCAB Level 4 Diploma in Therapeutic Counselling
CPCAB Levels 2&3 Counselling Certificates in Therapeutic Counselling

Background/Experience

I’ve enjoyed a long and rewarding career in helping professions. My journey began when I trained and volunteered as a Samaritan. It was here I developed my understanding of the power of listening and empathic support.

For over 20 years, I’ve also worked in primary and secondary schools, providing therapeutic support to children and their families. As a result, I have a  strong foundation in understanding emotional regulation and development, family dynamics and the challenges people face at different life stages. It’s also cemented my belief in the importance of creating a safe, non-judgemental space where people feel truly heard, respected and supported to move towards positive change in their lives.

How I Can Help You

You are in safe hands. As trust builds between us, I’ll ensure the pace of each session feels right for you both.

Through therapy, you’ll develop greater self-awareness, which opens the door to new perspectives, choices, and ways forward in your relationship.

You will learn how to listen more effectively, not purely to your partner, but also to yourself. This deeper understanding fosters healthier communication and more thoughtful, non-defensive responses.

Improved communication skills will also help you to say how you feel and  reconnect and validate one another in a meaningful way. Taking care of each other’s vulnerabilities and valuing differences will be part of the process.

You will be equipped with new tools to manage conflict positively, learning how to repair stored resentment so you can move forwards together without harbouring upset. How to rebuild trust and intimacy comes from the new emotional safety created.

Types of Therapy Offered

• Marriage Counseling
• Couples Therapy
• Relationship Counselling
• LGBTQ+ Couple Counselling
• Psychodynamic Therapy
• Person-Centered Therapy
• Depression Counselling
• Trauma Therapy
• Anxiety Therapy

If you would like to book a session with Samantha for Couple Therapy Dartford, please click here. Or use the ‘Book Now’ button below

Julie-Anne Vidler

Couple Counselling Canterbury (Chartham)

Hello, my name is Julie-Anne and I’m a fully qualified Psychodynamic Therapist. I hold a BA (Hons) in Integrative Counselling and have over 13 years’ experience working with both couples and individuals.

There are many reasons why people choose to start couple’s therapy. Some are finding it difficult to manage conflict, others feel they’ve grown apart and want to reconnect. Others want to work through an affair or gain clarity about whether to stay together or not.

No matter what the problem is, all couples and individuals are welcome. Regardless of age, sexual orientation or background. You will find me warm, engaging and non-judgemental from the start. My approach is always tailored to your unique situation.

Qualifications

• BA Hons in Integrative Counselling
• HE Dip in Psychodynamic Counselling
• Level 6 Certificate in Supervision

 Background & Experience

I began my career working for a charitable organisation supporting individuals, before moving into private practice. This now allows me to work with clients for as long or as briefly as they need.

Over the years, I’ve learned how important it is to see each person within a couple as a unique individual. In my work, I make sure both people feel heard and have the space to express their feelings and thoughts. This is at the heart of the couples counselling I’m privileged to offer.

Types of Therapy Offered

• Relationship Counselling
• Marriage Counselling
• Couple Counselling
• LGBTQ+ Couple Counselling
• Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT)
• Psychodynamic Therapy
• Person-Centered Therapy
• Trauma Therapy
• Anxiety Therapy
• Depression Counselling
• Bereavement Counseling
• Anger Management Therapy

How I Can Help You

I will help you voice your worries, fears and frustrations, so we can explore what you both want and need, without attributing blame.

You’ll be encouraged to really listen to one another, gaining a deeper understanding of each other’s perspective.

I’ll support you in learning practical tools to manage anger and conflict differently, while exploring where these patterns may come from.

During sessions with me, you’ll find a safe, respectful space where both of you can speak openly and feel genuinely heard.

Clients often tell me I have a calming presence, but I’m also honest and gently direct when needed, helping you see things from new angles so you can begin to move forward, whatever that may look like for you both.

If you would like to book a session in with Julie-Anne for couple counselling Canterbury. Please use this link or use the book now button below

Sabine Hawkins

Couple Counselling Birchington

Location: Relationship Counselling Kent, Birchington
BACP Registered | Specialist in Couples Therapy

Quick Summary: Here’s a short introduction to Sabine and how she can help — you can read more about her below.

Sabine is an experienced and approachable BACP-registered therapist offering couples counselling in Birchington. She provides a warm, non-judgemental space to explore whatever’s going on in your relationship — whether you’re feeling stuck, struggling to communicate, or facing a possible separation. Sabine helps couples navigate a wide range of issues, including stress, conflict, disconnection, and recurring patterns of behaviour. Her approach is active, supportive, and always tailored to your goals, whether that’s rebuilding your relationship or finding clarity about your future together.

👉 Request an appointment with Sabine at Relationship Counselling Kent – Birchington

More from Sabine…

I’m Sabine Hawkins and I’m an experienced BACP (British Association Counsellors Psychotherapists) registered therapist based at Couple Counselling Birchington.

I understand that it can take great courage to reach out for help with your relationship. However, rest assured, most of us experience relationship difficulties at some point because life can be challenging at times. I provide a safe, confidential environment where we can work through your relationship difficulties together.

A number of things can impact our relationships. Which can include a stressful work/life balance, negative behaviour patterns, poor communication or external influences.

I offer couple counselling for every type of relationship and any kind of problem.

My approach to couple counselling

I provide a warm, safe, confidential environment in which we can work together to explore your relationship difficulties and help you make sense of what is going on.

At the beginning of the session I will ask what you hope to achieve out of the relationship therapy. Whether you would like help to make your relationship work better than it currently is. Or perhaps you would like help to separate more amicably. Maybe you are unsure as to what you want at this point, that’s okay we will work together to help you find some clarity.

I consider myself warm, approachable and non-judgemental. My aim is to ensure you both feel important and comfortable. I will help you to listen to each other’s perspectives. This will enable you to gain a better understanding of what each of you are experiencing, how you feel and why.  We will then explore the changes that need to be made so you are able to move forward more positively, in whichever way you choose.

I won’t just sit there and nod, instead I will take an active role in helping you make the changes that you choose. Feedback from the couples I have seen is that I am warm, easy to talk to, perceptive, encouraging and intuitive.

Ethical Standards

I subscribe to and work within the UKCP code of ethics and the BACP ethical framework and undertake regular professional development and supervision as well as having professional indemnity insurance.

if you would like to make an appointment to see Sabine at Couple Birchington. Please contact us at Relationship Counselling Kent today. Request an appointment

Trish Mayne

Couple Therapy Faversham

Trish Mayne — Couples Counsellor

Location: Relationship Counselling Kent, Faversham
Relate Trained | BACP & UKCP Ethical Standards

Quick Summary: Here’s a short introduction to Trish and how she can help — you can read more about her below.

Trish is a warm, experienced couples counsellor offering therapy to individuals and couples in Faversham. She trained with Relate and has worked with a wide range of relationship challenges, including intimacy issues, affairs, family conflict, parenting pressures, and the impact of physical or mental ill health. With a background in nursing, midwifery and health visiting, Trish brings empathy, insight, and a calm, supportive presence to every session. She creates a safe, judgement-free space where you can reflect, reconnect, and move forward with greater clarity and confidence.

👉 Request an appointment with Trish at Relationship Counselling Kent – Faversham

More from Trish…

Hello, my name is Trish Mayne and I am a fully qualified ‘Relate’ trained couple counsellor, offering couple therapy for both couples and individuals.

For as long as I can remember I have had an interest in the way people communicate. Relationships are based around communication, whether that is with your partner, parents, children, colleagues and friends.

Our interaction with others can bring great joy and fulfilment. However, there are times when we all struggle with relationships. We change, others change and circumstances change. You and those around you can be left feeling confused and unhappy.

Maybe there is a relationship crisis in your life. It could be that your relationship is feeling unfulfilled. You may be unsure about the future together. You may want to prepare your relationship for a big life event you know is coming, such as becoming a parent or marriage.  It can be very difficult to find a place where you feel as if someone is really listening to you. This is where I, as a Relationship counsellor, can help.

My background

I began my career as a nurse within the NHS. This gave me the foundation to communicate with people of all ages when they were at their most vulnerable and needed support. I am also a qualified midwife and health visitor so I understand the physical and emotional changes that occurred when a couple were starting out as parents.

Personal expectations are challenged when a child comes into the family, and sometimes things are not as you were expecting them to be.  I have been privileged to gain the trust of many people I have worked with. Many feel better knowing they don’t have to be perfect.  It has been fulfilling to help people increase their self-belief and confidence.

I spent many years working with young parents, helping them to understand healthy relationships and have fulfilling attachments with their baby/ children.  I have used my knowledge of child development and psychology along the way.

My work with Relate over a number of years has been both face to face and online. I have worked with couples seeking help for relational problems such as: Wider family conflict; intimacy issues; infidelity or affairs; the loss of romance or excitement; mental and physical ill health affecting the relationship – to name but a few.

I’ve worked with couples where one partner has recently been released from prison, successfully helping them to re-establish their relationship with their partner and children.

I strongly believe that listening is the key to understanding and I feel my varied work expertise brings a rounded understanding of people of all ages, all walks of life and in all sorts of situations.

Couple Therapy Faversham

I will give you respect understanding, empathy and support. Whether you come as a couple or an individual. I will bring a warm, relaxed approach which will put you at ease and I aim to give you a feeling of being in control during our work together.

Sometimes we lose the skill of listening and understanding to what our partner is saying. I will give you space to explore your thoughts and feelings and think about how this affects your relationship.  You will need a space where there is equal time to think and speak.

My approach to your individual situation will be neutral and without judgement.  Along the way, I may challenge you if appropriate, or offer the odd suggestion. I won’t attempt to ‘fix ‘your relationship or tell you want you should or shouldn’t be thinking or feeling. Instead, I will sit with you while you are trying to make sense of your experience.

I hope that you will end your counselling with me feeling you have more control and understanding of your relationship.

Ethical standards

I subscribe and work within the UKCP code of ethics and the BACP ethical framework and undertake regular professional development and clinical supervision. I also have up to date professional indemnity insurance.

If you would like to make an appointment to see Trish for couple therapy Faversham then please contact her via Relationship Counselling Kent today. Request an appointment

Amanda Swan

Relationship Counselling Canterbury

Location: Canterbury (In-Person) & Online via Zoom
Couples Counsellor | BSc Psychology | Advanced Diploma in Psychotherapeutic Counselling

Quick Summary

Here’s a short introduction to Amanda and how she can help . you can read more about her below.

Amanda is a warm, experienced Psychotherapist with over 20 years of supporting people through a wide range of emotional and relationship challenges. She works with both couples and individuals in Canterbury, offering a calm, supportive space where you can feel heard, understood, and gently guided.

Her integrative approach draws on several therapeutic models, including emotionally focused and solution-focused work, helping you explore what is happening beneath the surface while learning practical tools for everyday life. Clients often describe Amanda as empathic, steady, and easy to talk to.

Click here to book an appointment with Amanda at Relationship Counselling Canterbury

More from Amanda

Hello, I’m Amanda. I’m a fully qualified Psychotherapist, and I’ve spent more than two decades supporting individuals and couples in a wide range of roles and settings. My aim is to offer a safe, non-judgemental space where you can talk openly, reflect honestly, and feel supported as we explore what matters most to you.

My approach to therapy is integrative, which means I draw on different therapeutic models to suit your needs. I often use emotionally focused and solution-focused approaches, as these can help strengthen communication, deepen connection, and reduce conflict in relationships. Whether you are attending alone or with your partner, I will work at your pace and help you explore what is going on underneath the surface, while also offering practical tools you can use between sessions.

I listen closely and respectfully, and I value the lived experience you bring. Together, we can explore what is causing difficulty, understand patterns that no longer serve you, and work towards clarity, confidence, and meaningful change.

Background and Experience

I’ve worked across a wide range of services including Victim Support, Youth Offending Teams, offender rehabilitation, an SEN school, and Cruse Bereavement Care. These roles have strengthened my understanding of the emotional, cultural, and social factors that shape our wellbeing and relationships.

I’m trained in conflict resolution, group facilitation, restorative justice, and trauma-informed practice. I also have experience supporting people through stress, loss, anxiety, low mood, relationship difficulties, and a wide range of life transitions. Living abroad in my younger years shaped my appreciation for diversity and the different ways we all experience the world, which continues to influence my work today.

I hold an Enhanced DBS certificate.

Qualifications

• BSc in Psychology – University of Kent
• MA in Criminology – University of Kent
• Advanced Diploma in Psychotherapeutic Counselling – NCPS
• Diploma in Counselling Skills & Theory – NCPS
• Working Directly with Trauma Certificate – NCPS
• Cruse Bereavement Care Foundation Course
• Cruse Safeguarding Training
• Certificate in Adult Autism Awareness – BPS
• Suicide and Self-Harm Training – BPS
• Hypnobirthing Practitioner
• Training in Safeguarding Children – KCC
• Victim Support Core Learning Course
• Serious Sexual Violence Training – Victim Support
• Youth Offending Service Training
• Restorative Justice Conferencing – KCC
• Circles of Support and Accountability Training

How I Can Help You

As your therapist, my role is to support you with warmth, clarity, and steady guidance. Together, we can:

• Explore what feels difficult or overwhelming, so you feel less alone with your thoughts and emotions.
• Understand the patterns that may be shaping your life or relationships, and make sense of why certain situations feel so challenging.
• Improve communication, connection, and emotional understanding, whether you come alone or with your partner.
• Work through stressful or painful experiences with care, giving you space to process things gently and safely.
• Develop practical tools and healthier ways of coping, helping you feel more balanced, confident, and grounded in everyday life.

Each session will be a safe and supportive space where you can think, reflect, and move forward at a pace that feels comfortable for you.

Types of Therapy Offered

• Couples Therapy
• Marriage Counselling
• Emotionally Focused Therapy
• Family Therapy
• Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT)
• Person-Centred Therapy
• Psychodynamic Therapy
• Trauma Therapy
• Bereavement Counselling
• Anger Management Therapy
• Depression Counselling
• Anxiety Therapy
• OCD Therapy

If you would like to book a session with Amanda for Relationship Counselling Canterbury, please use the Book Now button below.

Jackie Hare

Couple Therapy Medway (Chatham)

Jackie Hare — Couples Counsellor
Location: Relationship Counselling Kent, Chatham (Medway)
MBACP Accredited | CPCAB Level 4 Diploma in Therapeutic Counselling

Quick Summary: Here’s a short introduction to Jackie and how she can help — you can read more about her below.

Jackie is a fully qualified person-centred couples counsellor offering therapy in Chatham. She supports couples who feel disconnected, stuck in a cycle of arguments, or unsure about their future together. Jackie offers a calm, neutral space where both partners are supported to express themselves openly and feel heard. Her approach is non-directive but active, helping you understand each other’s perspective, improve communication, and move forward in whichever direction feels right for you. Clients often say her sessions help them feel more understood and hopeful, even after a single session.

👉 Request an appointment with Jackie at Relationship Counselling Kent – Medway

More from Jackie…

Hello and welcome. My name is Jackie Hare and I am based at Relationship Counselling Kent’s Chatham practice. I hold a CPCAB Level 4 Diploma in ‘Therapeutic Counselling’ and I’m member of the BACP (British Association of Counselling & Psychotherapy).

I am fully qualified ‘Person-Centered’ therapist which means I will encourage you both to bring your individual issues to the session. The relationship counselling will be led by you both and not directed by me as your therapist.

Couples frequently tell me that they have drifted apart which leaves them feeling disconnected and alone, rather than a pair. It is also common for couples to be concerned that the “spark” has gone between them. Or something has impacted their relationship, leading to a breakdown in communication, causing pain, frustration and tension. This negative cycle then affects the trust and understanding between them which results in a void developing. Usually, by the time couples choose to seek professional help for their relationship, resentment tends to be simmering beneath the surface on one or both sides.

Relationship counselling is often viewed as a last resort for some couples because their relationship is at breaking point. However, in general, couple therapy is a positive experience because it takes place in a neutral setting, where you can take a breath and have the opportunity to finally feel ‘heard’ and hopefully understood by your partner.

My approach to relationship therapy

At the beginning of the first session, I will ask you both what you hope achieve out of the therapy. Whether you would like help to make your relationship work better, or whether you would like help in separating more amicably. Perhaps, you are not sure which direction you would like your relationship to take and would like to see how the therapy will go before you decide. It doesn’t matter if you don’t know, or if your answers are different, I will help you both work through things in order to find some clarity.

I will play an active role in opening up the conversation between you. Bridging the gap and working with you both to gain a better understanding of each other’s point of view. Sometimes just having a moment to listen to each other without conflict can be therapeutic in itself. I am not there to judge or take sides, instead I will support you both as you share your thoughts and feelings. Taking the time to really listen and try and understand each other, without conflict, is therapeutic in itself.

As a person- centred counsellor I embrace diversity and will encourage couples of any age, gender or sexual orientation to explore their relationship in a calm, safe and confidential space.

Ethical Standards

As a member of BACP I subscribe to their code of ethics. This includes

undertaking continuous professional development and clinical Supervision. I also hold professional indemnity insurance in order to be able to practice.

If you would like to an appointment to see Jackie at Couple Therapy Medway. Please contact her via Relationship Counselling Kent today. Link –Request an appointment

Lynn Garbutt

Couples Counselling Ashford (Egerton)

Lynn Garbutt – Cognitive Behavioural Therapist & Couples Counsellor

Location: Relationship Counselling Kent, Ashford (Egerton).

PGDip in Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT/REBT) | Couples Counsellor | UKCP & BACP Ethical Standards

Quick Summary: Here’s a short introduction to Lynn and how she can help — you can read more about her below.

Lynn is a warm and practical therapist with over five years’ experience supporting couples and individuals. Based in Ashford (Egerton), she offers a calm and supportive space to work through communication difficulties, conflict, and relationship challenges.

As a qualified Cognitive Behavioural Therapist (CBT/REBT) and Couples Counsellor, Lynn helps partners break negative patterns, improve understanding, and find clarity about their future together. Known for her down-to-earth approach, clients describe Lynn as perceptive, impartial, and easy to talk to, creating a safe environment where both partners feel equally heard.

👉 Book an appointment with Lynn at Relationship Counselling Kent – Ashford (Egerton)

More From Lynn

Hello, my name is Lynn Garbutt and I am a fully qualified Cognitive Behavioural Therapist (CBT/REBT) and Couples Counsellor, based at Relationship Counselling Kent’s Ashford (Egerton) practice.

I hold a PGDip in Cognitive Behavioural Therapy and have over five years’ experience helping both couples and individuals make positive changes in their lives and relationships.

In my experience, it is common for relationships to go through troubling periods. This can affect the health and happiness of both partners, as well as other family members. When emotions are running high, it can be difficult to appreciate and understand your partner’s perspective. This can lead to feelings of hurt, resentment, confusion, and loneliness.

My Approach to Couple Therapy

At the beginning of our first session, I will ask you both what you hope to achieve. You may want help to make your relationship work better, support in separating more amicably, or perhaps you are unsure which direction you would like your relationship to take. It does not matter if you do not know, or if your answers are different – I will help you work through things to find clarity.

The therapeutic relationship between us is of the utmost importance in order for therapy to be successful. I will always strive to build a trusting and empathic relationship with you, tailoring my approach to suit your unique situation.

My style is down-to-earth and practical. I will help you work through issues step by step and may draw upon the tools of CBT to gently challenge you about the negative impact of unhelpful behaviours on your relationship.

Moving You Forward

The vast majority of issues in relationships are caused by poor communication. Couples often think they are listening, but they are not truly hearing or understanding what is being said.

In our sessions, I will help you:

• Appreciate each other’s point of view in a calm, supportive, non-judgemental space.
• Recognise repeating patterns of behaviour that may be harming your relationship.
• Reflect on how your reactions and behaviours might be affecting your partner.
• Break out of unhelpful cycles, such as having the same arguments repeatedly.
• I take an active role in sessions, encouraging you both to reflect back each other’s perspective.

It is important that you feel comfortable with me in order to get the best from therapy. Feedback from couples often describes me as warm, perceptive, and impartial, which helps create a space where both partners feel able to share openly.

Ethical Standards

I subscribe to and work within the UKCP Code of Ethics and the BACP Ethical Framework, undertaking regular professional development. I also hold full professional indemnity insurance.

Types of Therapy Offered

• Couples Counselling
• Marriage Counselling
• Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT/REBT)
• Communication and Conflict Resolution Therapy
• Online Therapy (via Zoom)
• Individual Therapy

• 👉 If you would like to make an appointment with Lynn Garbutt for couples counselling in Ashford or online, please [click here] or use the Book Now button below.

Beth West

Relationship Counselling  Ashford

Beth — Couples Therapist
Location: Relationship Counselling Kent, Ashford
NCS Accredited | Advanced Diploma in CBT & REBT | Qualified Mediator

Quick Summary: Here’s a short introduction to Beth and how she can help — you can read more about her below.

Beth is an experienced CBT therapist and qualified mediator offering couples counselling in Ashford. She uses a structured, evidence-based approach called Rational Emotive Counselling Therapy (RECT) designed to help couples overcome emotional upset, unhelpful thinking patterns, and repetitive conflict. Beth supports you to explore the deeper beliefs affecting your relationship, teaching practical tools to improve communication, rebuild trust, and make lasting changes. Whether you’re hoping to strengthen your relationship or gain clarity about the future, Beth offers a calm, supportive space to help you move forward with confidence.

👉 Book an appointment with Beth at Relationship Counselling Kent – Ashford

More from Beth…

Hello, my name is Beth and I am a fully qualified CBT therapist who offers a unique, tailor made approach to couple counselling called ‘Rational Emotive Counselling Therapy’ (RECT). Which is for couples struggling with emotional disturbance in their relationships

I hold an ‘Advanced Diploma in Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT)’ and ‘Rational Emotive Behavioural Therapy (REBT)’ awarded by ‘The College of Cognitive Therapies London’. Both of which are accredited by the ‘National Counselling Society’ (NCS).

I am also a qualified Mediator, which means I am an unbiased third person who is called upon to help resolve any differences/disputes. I have mediated a range of disputes, including family, neighbourhood and employment disputes. This has given me a good insight into relationships and how they breakdown when one or both parties hold irrational demands on themselves or the other person.

I combine my experience as a mediator with my REBT training in order to provide ‘Rational Emotive Counselling Therapy (RECT) for couples.

My role in couple counselling

At the start of the session, I will ask you what you are hoping to achieve through couple counselling. Perhaps you want help in making your relationship work better than it currently is. Or maybe you would like help to be able to separate more amicably. Perhaps, at this point in time, you might be feeling a little sceptical as to whether the relationship can be any better, so you would like to see how the therapy goes before you decide.

It is not my mission to rescue or save a troubled relationship if that isn’t what you want. I will help you work towards your goal. If you are unsure as to which direction you want the relationship to take. I will help free you from any strong negative emotions so that you can make more informed decisions as to whether you want to continue the relationship.

If you decide you want to stay together, I will help you enhance your long-term happiness. This will be through helping you eliminate and replace relationship-defeating beliefs. We will then work on identifying and changing any dysfunctional/unhelpful behaviour patterns to ones that help achieve long-range happiness. I will teach you cognitive, emotive and behavioural skills so you are able to successfully resolve any problems in the future. Ensuring ongoing harmony and happiness once the relationship counselling sessions have come to an end.

My Approach to Relationship Counselling

Relationships require hard work in order to ensure both parties feel mutually supported, respected and secure. In today’s busy world, it can be all too easy to lose focus on connecting with, listening to and supporting your partner. I provide a warm and non-judgmental environment where you can talk openly about the problems from your individual perspective. We will work together to better understand the role you have both played in the relationship running into difficulties. I will then help you understand the changes and tools required so you can support one another going forward.

I will help you both to rebuild your confidence, understand the possibilities of relating to each other more effectively and feel more enabled to make empowered choices about your relationship.

Ethical Standards

I am an accredited member of the National Counselling Society (NCS) and as such subscribe to and work within the NCS code of ethics. I undertake regular professional development and supervision as well as having professional indemnity insurance.

If you would like to see Beth for marriage counselling ashford  please contact her via Relationship Counselling Kent today. Book here

Maria Priddey

Relationship Counselling Sittingbourne

My Name is Maria Priddey and I am a fully qualified and an experienced Couple Counsellor based at Relationship Counselling Kent’s Sittingbourne practice.  I have a Level 4 Diploma in ‘Therapeutic Counselling’ and I am registered with the  BACP (British Association Counsellors & Psychotherapists) so therefore abide by their code of ethics.

My core approach to therapy is “Person Centred”. Which emphasis the belief that every person has the capacity  to fulfil his or her own potential. I also practice the ‘integrative’ approach, which  means I draw upon different theoretical approaches to allow me to tailor my work to suit each couple’s unique situation.

I understand it can be difficult to take the decision to reach out for help with your relationship. However, rest assured, I will be there to support you both, every step of the way.

At the beginning of our first session, I will ask you what you hope to achieve out of the therapy. Whether  you are hoping to make your relationship work better than it currently is or perhaps you would like me to help you separate more amicably. At this point, you might feel unsure or you  might have different answers and that is okay, we will work together to help you find clarity.

My approach to relationship therapy

I offer a safe, confidential space in order for you both to work through the problems in your relationship. Helping uou find answers to any questions you may have by encouraging you to  look  at your feelings. I will support you in finding a greater understanding of yourself as an individual as well as within your relationship. You will be empowered to explore change and  in turn find a way of moving forward, in whichever way you choose.

Each session will be guided by you. Which means you will have complete autonomy to decide what we discuss. You will be in control of when you are ready to talk about parts of you and your relationship. Although I will be there to guide the sessions and help you both ‘really’ lisen to each other’s points of view. You don’t necessarily have to like, or agree, with each other’s  perspectives. However, by understanding them, goes a  long way in removing any hurt, anger or resentment which may have built up over the years. It is your opportunity to talk and to be heard

I consider myself warm, down to earth and non-judgemental. Which will hopefully enable you both to feel comfortable enough to talk freely, openly and honestly with me. I will ensure you feel valued and comfortable during our sessions, helping you have a better understanding of each other. So you are able to  work together to achieve a better way of being.

Ethical Standards

I am a member of the BACP, working within their ethical framework.  I also attend monthly clinical supervision and further training in specific areas as required. My professional indemnity/public liability insurance is always up to date.

If you would like to make an appointment to see Maria for Relationship Counselling Sittingbourne. Then please contact her via Relationship Counselling Kent today.  Click – Request an appointment

Sian Jones

Online Couple Therapy

Sian Jones — Online Couples Therapist
Location: Relationship Counselling Kent, Online via Zoom
Founder | BACP Registered | CBT Therapist & Relationship Counsellor

Quick Summary: Here’s a short introduction to Sian and how she can help — you can read more about her below.

Sian is the founder of Relationship Counselling Kent and an experienced CBT therapist and relationship counsellor offering online couples therapy via Zoom. With over a decade of experience and a track record of helping thousands of couples, Sian offers a calm, practical, and non-judgemental approach that helps both partners feel heard. Her sessions are active and supportive, guiding you step-by-step to better understand each other and resolve the issues that have been holding you back. Whether you want to repair, rebuild, or separate with clarity, Sian offers the insight and structure to help you move forward.

👉 Book an appointment with Sian for Online Couples Therapy

My name is Sian Jones and I’m  a fully qualified Relationship Counsellor and CBT therapist offering Couple Therapy Online via Zoom.

I am the founder of ‘Relationship Counselling Kent‘ and opened our first practice in Ashford 12 years ago, before expanding across Kent and opening a further 22 practices. I have a proven track record in successfully helping thousands of couples achieve their chosen goal through couple therapy.

My work is diverse and I have vast experience in working with mixed cultures, same gender relationships, families and friendships. I provide a non-judgemental  safe, confidential environment where we can work through your relationship challenges together.

My approach to couple therapy

When relationship’s aren’t working as well as we would like them to, emotions become heightened and it can be difficult to see the wood from the trees. Let alone be able to identify the part you have both played in the relationship running in to difficulties.

My approach to online couple therapy is common sense, step by step, non-judgemental. I will encourage you to work through your problems together. Through me asking you relevant questions, you will both be given the opportunity to open up and explain what isn’t working for you and why.  In turn, this will allow your partner the opportunity to really listen and try to understand your point of view.

It’s not necessarily about you agreeing or even liking each other’s perspective, it’s about understanding them. Nor is it about attributing blame. It’s about gaining a proper understanding of how the other person feels and why. Because when an ‘understanding’ from both parties is reached, it goes a long way in removing any hurt, resentment or anger that may have built up over the years. Therefore allowing you to move forward, in whichever way you choose.

The feedback I receive is that I have an exceptional ability to make couples feel quickly at ease . Experience shows, when people feel comfortable, they find it much easier to open-up, be honest and communicate more effectively.

Rest assured, I won’t sit there silently waiting for you to speak. Instead, I will take an active part in the conversation and the process of recovery and change. Read what couples say about me  Trust Pilot Reviews

Ethical Standards

I subscribe to and work within the UKCP code of ethics and the BACP ethical framework. I undertake professional development, have regular supervision and hold professional indemnity insurance.

If you would like to make an appointment to come and see me at for Online Couples Therapy. Please contact me via Relationship Counselling Kent today.Book an appointment to see Sian

Maureen Fenner

Marriage Counselling Ashford

Maureen — Couples & Individual Therapist
Location: Relationship Counselling Kent, Ashford
NCS Accredited | Level 4 Diploma in Therapeutic Counselling | 14+ Years’ Experience

Quick Summary: Here’s a short introduction to Maureen and how she can help — you can read more about her below.

Maureen is a highly experienced therapist offering relationship counselling to individuals, couples, and families in Ashford. With over 14 years’ experience and a background in support roles at organisations like Citizens Advice and Victim Support, she brings warmth, empathy, and deep understanding to her work. Maureen helps couples improve communication, strengthen emotional connection, and navigate change — whether you’re feeling stuck, misunderstood, or disconnected. She also supports clients to build confidence and self-awareness, knowing that how we relate to ourselves often shapes how we relate to others.

👉 Book an appointment with Maureen for Marriage Counselling in Ashford

More from Maureen…

Hello, my name is Maureen and I’m a fully qualified individual and couple therapist with over 14 years’ experience. I have a Level 4 Diploma in Therapeutic Counselling (Counselling & Therapy Central Awarding Body).I’m also an accredited member of the NCS (National Counselling Society)

My experience covers a wide range of areas, including depression, anxiety, bereavement, and a strong focus on relationship counselling for couples and families. Prior to training as a therapist., I worked with organisations such as Citizens Advice, Victim Support, and Disability Information Kent. This is where I developed a deep passion for supporting individuals and couples from diverse backgrounds. These roles strengthened my skills in active listening and providing support—qualities that remain central to my work in helping couples navigate their relationship challenges.

My Approach to Relationship Counselling

I believe that counselling is fundamentally about change. For relationships to thrive, change is often essential. While it can be difficult to shift from negative behaviours, I provide couples with the space and time to explore themselves and each other, all within a non-judgemental, confidential environment.

Communication is at the heart of many relationship challenges. It’s not just about talking but truly listening to and understanding your partner’s perspective. I work with couples to break down these barriers, fostering healthier communication and stronger emotional connections. I also emphasise the importance of the relationship we have with ourselves. If we can build self-confidence and learn to value ourselves, it positively impacts how others perceive and connect with us.

Qualifications

• Level 4 Diploma in Therapeutic Counselling (Counselling & Therapy Central Awarding Body)
• Level 6 Diploma in Clinical/Non-Clinical Supervision (Thoros Training)
• Accredited Member of the National Counselling & Psychotherapy Society

Background & Experience

I have extensive experience in counselling, having worked at New Romney Counselling Service for eight years, supporting clients with issues ranging from suicidal thoughts to relationship struggles. For five years, I also worked with bereaved clients and their families. While I no longer specialise in bereavement counselling, this work has greatly informed my therapeutic approach and helped me grow as a counsellor.

How I Can Help You

• Improve communication in your relationship
  I will help you both to express your thoughts and feelings clearly, listen effectively, and understand each other’s needs to create open, supportive dialogue.
• Help you express your true feelings
  I’ll guide you in owning and communicating your emotions honestly, fostering a more authentic connection with your partner.
• Build resilience in the face of relationship challenges
  We will work together in developing tools to navigate conflicts and setbacks, helping you build a stronger, more resilient relationship.
• Offer non-judgemental listening and support
  I provide a confidential, non-judgemental space where you can explore your feelings and relationship challenges with empathy and understanding.
• Guide you toward becoming the person you want to be
  I will help you overcome personal barriers, encouraging growth so you can be your best self both individually and in your relationship.

Types of Therapy Offered

• Couples Therapy
• Marriage Counselling
• LGBTQ+ Couple Counselling
• Relationship Counselling
• Depression Counselling
• Anxiety Therapy
• Person-Centred Therapy
• Family Therapy
• Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT)
• Anger Management Therapy
• Young Person Therapy (11+)

If you would like to book Maureen for Marriage Counselling Ashford. Please use this link to book now

Andrew Allan

Andrew Allan – Couples Therapy Sevenoaks

Location: Relationship Counselling Kent, Sevenoaks | Advanced Diploma in Couples Counselling | Certificate in Psychosexual Therapy | NCS Registered

Quick Summary: Here’s a short introduction to Andrew and how he can help — you can read more about him below.

Andrew is a warm and approachable therapist with specialist training in couples counselling and psychosexual therapy. Based in Sevenoaks, he works with couples of all ages, backgrounds, and orientations, as well as individuals seeking support with relationship concerns. Andrew tailors his approach to the unique needs of each couple, helping partners explore past influences, improve communication, and build healthier ways of relating. He can also support couples who decide to separate, guiding them through the process as respectfully and amicably as possible. Clients describe Andrew as understanding and supportive, creating a space where both partners feel equally heard.

👉 Book an appointment with Andrew at Relationship Counselling Kent – Sevenoaks

Couples Counselling in Sevenoaks with Andrew

Hello, my name is Andrew and I am based at Relationship Counselling Kent’s Sevenoaks practice. I am a fully qualified therapist with an Advanced Diploma in Couples Counselling and a Certificate in Psychosexual Therapy. I am also a registered member of the National Counselling Society (NCS).

I welcome couples of all ages, backgrounds, and sexual orientations, as well as individuals seeking support with relationship concerns or challenges.

When We First Meet

I understand that coming to therapy can feel daunting, especially if it is your first time. My priority is to help you feel comfortable and at ease.

In our first session, I will ensure that both of you have the time and space to be heard, to share why you have come to therapy, and what you would like to achieve.

Sometimes couples arrive feeling overwhelmed by many issues or unsure where to start. Others worry their problems may seem small. I believe that all couples can benefit from counselling, and I will work with you to identify patterns, clarify the main issues, and support you in moving forward.

My Approach to Couples Therapy

I do not follow an “off the shelf” model, as I believe each couple is unique. Instead, I tailor my approach to meet your needs.

We may explore your individual histories, including childhood experiences, as these often influence how you relate to each other. I will also provide you with tools and techniques that can help you improve your relationship in the present.

Together, we will also look ahead. I will support you in developing and growing both as a couple and as individuals. For some, this may mean strengthening the relationship, while for others it may mean deciding to separate. If separation is the best choice, I will help you navigate the process in as constructive and amicable a way as possible.

Common Problems I Work With

I can help with a wide range of relationship difficulties, including:

• Poor communication
• Infidelity and loss of trust
• Intimacy issues and lack of desire
• Ongoing conflict
• Differences in values and life choices

Ethical Standards

I subscribe to and work within the NCS Ethical Framework. I undertake regular professional development, have frequent clinical supervision, and hold full professional indemnity insurance.

👉 If you would like to make an appointment with Andrew for couples counselling in Sevenoaks, please use the Book Now button below.

Steve Bennett

Couple Therapy Folkestone

Hello, my name is Steve Bennett, and I am a mature, fully qualified Psychotherapeutic Therapist for couples and individuals. I’m a member of BACP (British Association of Counselling and Psychotherapy) and an accredited member of NCPS (National Counselling and Psychotherapy Society). I’m also fully qualified supervisor for other therapists and a trained Mediator.

The therapy I provide will be as individual as you are. Which means I will endeavour to help you explore the problems you are experiencing in your relationship. I am impartial and non-judgemental and will strive to make sure that each person has their say and is heard.

Whether you are looking for help to make your relationship work better than it currently is, or if you are looking for support in separating more amicably, I am here to help.

The main aim of couple’s therapy sessions is to help you communicate more effectively, which will hopefully lead to you having a better understanding of yourselves and each other. I will support you through any tough times or decisions you need to make, whilst encouraging positive thoughts, attitudes and steps forward.

Ethical Standards – As a member of NCPS and BACP I adhere to their ethical guidelines, ongoing supervision and CPD (Continual Professional Development) to ensure the service I provide to my clients is the best possible.

Qualifications

• Level 5 Professional Diploma in Psychotherapeutic Counselling
• Level 6 Advanced certificate in Counselling Supervision
• Level 4 AIM qualification in Interpersonal Mediation
• Level 3 Personal advisor certificate (Connexions)
• Diploma in Hypnotherapy

 Background/experience

I am a mature, married man with children. I have a broad life experience with related employment over the years including Factory work, telecoms engineer, Mentor, work as a personal advisor for 16–23-year-olds, teaching in a secondary school, work in the field of domestic abuse and culminating in private practice as a counsellor, with continuing professional development.

How I can help you

• I’m told that I’m easy to talk to. I will listen intently in order to understand what is going on between you. Things might not feel clear for you at first but I will relay them back in a way that makes them open to change.
• I will help you communicate more effectively, whilst ensuring at all times, you both feel heard and understood.
• I am warm, impartial and approachable and will maintain the balance of power during our sessions together.
• We will work together to help you develop the right skill’s so conversation does not lead to conflict. Therefore, I will provide you with the tools to help you deal with differences in a structured, effective and safe manner.
• Our sessions together will always be in safe, comfortable and non-judgemental environment. You will be provided with the space to express your thoughts, feelings and vulnerabilities and I will ensure you both feel heard and always respected.

 Types of therapy offered

• Couples Therapy
• Marriage Counselling
• LGBTQ+ Couple Counselling
• Relationship Counselling
• Depression Counselling
• Anxiety Therapy
• Person-Centered Therapy
• Bereavement Counselling
• Family Therapy
• Anger Management Therapy
• Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT)
• Life Coaching

If you would like to make an appointment to see Steve for couple therapy Folkestone, please click here to book

Karen Williams

Couple Therapy Gillingham

Hello, my name is Karen Williams and I am a fully qualified Integrative Therapist based at Relationship Counselling Gillingham (Rainham) practice. I’m qualified to diploma level in both Integrative/Person Centred Therapy and Transactional Analysis. I am also a member of the BACP (British Association of Counselling & Psychotherapy)

Person Centred Therapy works on the premise that an individual knows themselves better than anyone else. Therefore, focusing on this knowledge to enable an individual to understand any past or current issues in order to grow emotionally. This is invaluable in understanding how individual roles impact a relationship.

Transactional Analysis explores how we communicate and understand each other based on numerous factors. My study of Integrative Counselling enables me to draw upon a variety of different therapeutic approaches to find one best suited to your unique situation

I’m not only an experienced couple therapist. I also work with a wide range of issues such as anxiety, depression, trauma, personality disorder, and bipolar disorder.

As a couples counsellor  I work with heterosexual, trans or same sex relationships. Along with different cultures, religious beliefs and much more.

My Approach to Couple Therapy

I create a warm, safe environment in order for you to feel comfortable enough to open up about what is going on for you in your relationship. I’m not there to take side or pass judgement. Instead I will be there to listen to your combined experiences of the issues presented.

At the first session, we will discuss what your aims are for therapy, that is if you know of course. If not, I will help you both try and find some clarity as to what success looks like for you both and you can decide how the sessions develop with my input. We will work together on the partner dynamics whilst allowing both of you to be heard, listened to, and validated.

I will work with you both to gain a greater understanding of yourselves and the way you communicate. This means, we will look at what you say, what you mean and how you expect it to be received by your partner.  Together, we will explore how it might be interpreted in a different manner from which it was intended.

Miscommunication often lies in differences in individual life experiences, which can lead to different meanings being drawn from the same comment or behaviour. Therefore, the exploration of this leads to a greater understanding and hopefully the reduction of any hurt, anger and/or resentment that might have been building up.

It is a privilege to be part of people’s life stories and relationships. I gain great satisfaction in helping couples solve the issues within their relationships so they can move forward more positively in whichever way they chose.

Confidentiality is always respected.

Ethical Standards

I am a member of the BACP and the NSCP, which means I abide by the ethical guidelines and professional standards of both organisations. Part of my professional standards is to have ongoing supervision and continual professional development. This to ensure I provide the best possible service for my clients.

If you would like to make an appointment to see Karen for Couple Therapy Gillingham. Please click  – Book Now

Emma Palmer

Couple Therapy West Malling

Hello! I’m Emma Palmer, a fully qualified, highly experienced ‘Relate’ trained couple counsellor based at Relationship Counselling Kent’s West Malling practice. I have a Graduate Certificate in ‘Couple Counselling’ and have over 20 years of experience . I specialise in helping couples and individuals find resolution to conflicts, embrace positive change and restore peace within their relationships.

Using an ‘Integrative Approach’ that acknowledges and accepts relationship difficulties. I support couples in understanding and addressing long-standing conflicts that may have been concealed, but are negatively impacting their present lives. Unresolved discord can unintentionally create emotional strain and stress within intimate relationships and family dynamics.

Deeply rooted and internally held emotions, combined with a multitude of external tensions associated with every-day living. Can result in regular clashes and intolerance within our most valued relationships.

How I can help your relationship

I offer sessions designed to provide context and guidance, empowering couples to work towards their chosen goal. As a warm and inclusive professional, I will create a safe, non-judgmental and confidential space where both partners can express themselves and feel truly heard. I understand that it might feel quite daunting discussing your relationship difficulties with a stranger. However, I will ensure you are comfortable so you feel more at ease opening up.

Our therapy sessions will begin by gaining a shared understanding of your concerns and goals. Together, we’ll explore ways to achieve clarity so you are able to move forward with confidence, in whichever way you choose.

Initial sessions may bring about some challenges, as each individual may have different desires and strongly held views on solutions, potentially leading to more conflict. This is a natural reaction, due to old wounds potentially being opened up.  However, as progress is made, couples discover the power of active listening and conflict resolution. This paves the way for positive change and a more harmonious relationship.

I recognise that individuals within relationships are influenced by their past experiences and upbringing. This can have a significant impact on the current relationship dynamics. By understanding any underlying pressures and nurturing a shared commitment to lasting change, we’ll work together to explore the transformations and resolutions you seek.

Ethical Standards

I undertake regular professional development in all frameworks of the counselling disciplines provided, together with regular clinical supervision sessions. I also hold professional indemnity insurance.

If you would like to make an appointment to see Emma for couple therapy West Malling. Contact her via Relationship Counselling Kent Today. Book Now

Denese MacDonald

Couple Therapy Online

Denese MacDonald — Couples Counsellor
Location: Relationship Counselling Kent, Online via Zoom
Certified Imago Therapist | BACP Registered | 20+ Years’ Experience

Quick Summary: Here’s a short introduction to Denese and how she can help — you can read more about her below.

Denese is a highly experienced relationship counsellor offering online couples therapy via Zoom. A certified Imago Therapist and integrative practitioner, she draws on over 20 years of experience helping couples break painful cycles, improve communication, and reconnect emotionally. Whether you’re feeling unheard, stuck in recurring conflict, or unsure whether to stay together, Denese offers a calm, non-judgemental space to explore what’s going wrong and what’s possible. She gently supports both partners to be truly heard, helping you move forward — together or apart — with greater clarity and respect.

👉 Request an appointment with Denese for Online Couples Therapy

More from Denese…

Hello, my name is Denese MacDonald and I am a certified Relationship Counsellor of ’Imago Therapy, with over 20 years’ experience. I am BACP registered, which means I am qualified to work with both individuals and couples. Although relationship counselling is my main area of expertise.

Imago Therapy is a process designed to assist couples in overcoming a distanced hurting relationship in order to find love again. Whilst I am a practitioner of Imago Therapy I am essentially an ‘integrative therapist’. That’s’ because I don’t believe in a ‘one size fits all’ approach, So I use different therapeutic models, depending on each couples’ individual needs.

How couple therapy online can help

Perhaps you are tired of recycling the same conflicts which result in you feeling misunderstood, hurt or angry? Or maybe you feel so unhappy in your relationship that you are wondering if you should stay or leave?

Often, when couples are experiencing a lot of pain and frustration in their relationship, they feel disconnected and defensive. I shall assist you in creating a positive change in the way you communicate. So instead of being defensive and acting out your hurt with destructive behaviours. I will help you both calmly express your pain or dissatisfactions and explore them in more detail. We will discuss what you would like to change and tailor the counselling to meet your goals.

Undertaking  couple therapy online, in a safe non-judgemental space will allow listening and understanding instead of escalation and conflict. Relationship counselling can help expand awareness and develop the skills needed to repair and grow your relationship to its full potential.

If change is not possible and recovery is not your goal. Then online couple counselling can support you to talk this out, with kindness and mutual respect; so, you can move forward more positively in separate lives.

Marriage counselling is a positive action to navigate your way through your relationship difficulties. Being accurately’heard’ by our partner is the start of healing and growth.

Ethical Practice

Being a BACP member means that my practice is informed by their code of ethics. I also undertake regular professional development and supervision as well as having professional indemnity insurance.

If you would like to make an appointment to see Denese for couple therapy online. Please contact her via Relationship Counselling Kent today. Request an appointment

Kaye Barney

Marriage Counselling Online

Hello, my name is Kaye Barney and I’m a fully qualified ‘Relate’ and ‘Tavistock’ trained individual and couples’ therapist. I hold a Psychology degree and a foundation degree in Relationship Counselling.

Relationship Counselling is my second career. It builds upon many years of experience working in commercial organisations, understanding human motivations and behaviour. Over the years I’ve also gathered a wide variety of life skills and experiences. I now help couples and individuals succesfully resolve their relationship problems.

About you

Do you feel unhappy in your relationship? Perhaps your relationship is stuck in a rut or you’ve grown apart? Maybe you’ve lost the spark that brought you together or keep going around and around with the same old arguments. Alternatively, you might be struggling to communicate at all.

Resentment might be simmering under the surface or there are fireworks every time you share what’s on your mind. Perhaps one of you has had an affair, leaving the other feeling betrayed. Or one of you feels invaded because your partner is too clingy.

Maybe you’re unsure whether you want to stay or leave a relationship.  You might know what you want, but don’t know how to do it. Or think what you want is different to what your partner wants.

Perhaps you want counselling on your own, or couples counselling with your partner.  Whatever your reasons might be for seeking relationship counselling online, I can help you find a way forward.

About marriage counselling online

Asking for help signifies the realisation that whatever your situation is, it won’t get better without something changing.

Making the decision to start relationship therapy can feel like a huge step. Perhaps you’ve been thinking about it for a while, or you have maybe been putting it off, in the hope that things will improve. Maybe you’re reluctant to talk about deeply personal issues with a stranger. Or nervous about what you might discover about yourself or your partner. Perhaps you’ve tried counselling before and felt it didn’t work or you didn’t ‘click’ with the counsellor.

Whatever your fears, I’ll help you feel at ease with my warm, friendly, non-judgemental approach. I’ll give you time to talk about your problems in confidence and at your own pace. I’ll help you find ways of coping. And if you come with your partner, rest assured that I’ll give you both space to be heard.

I will help you:-

• Explore what happens with repetitive thoughts.
• Unpick the arguments that go round and round.
• Work out where these patterns come from.
• Voice your expectations, hopes and fears.
• Understand how you communicate and try new ways of talking.
• Identify what to change and learn how to accept or tolerate what you can’t.
• Consider a way forward by brainstorming options.

Ethical Standards

I have a BACP Certificate of Proficiency, demonstrating that I have the relevant, up to date skills to be a practising counsellor. As a registered BACP member, I work within their Ethical Framework. I am fully insured, DBS certified, and take part in ongoing supervision and professional development.

If you would like to make an appointment to see Kaye for marriage counselling online. Request an appointment

Sara O’Donnell

Relationship Counselling West Malling (Wateringbury)

Sara O’Donnell – Psychotherapeutic Counsellor & Couples Counsellor

Location: Relationship Counselling Kent, West Malling.

Accredited Member of the National Counselling Society (NCS) | Registered Member of the BACP

Quick Summary: Here’s a short introduction to Sara and how she can help — you can read more about her below.

Sara is a compassionate and experienced therapist working with both couples and individuals. Based in West Malling, she offers a supportive and non-judgemental space to explore relationship difficulties, improve communication, and break unhelpful cycles of conflict.

As an Accredited Member of the National Counselling Society (NCS) and Registered BACP Counsellor, she follows an integrative, person-centred approach, drawing on Transactional Analysis and RIGAAR techniques to tailor therapy to each couple’s unique needs. Clients describe Sara as empathetic and authentic, helping them feel heard, understood, and supported in making meaningful changes to their relationships.

👉 Book an appointment with Sara at Relationship Counselling Kent – West Malling

More From Sara

My name is Sara O’Donnell and I am a fully qualified Psychotherapeutic Counsellor. I work with both couples and individuals. I’m an accredited member of the National Counselling Society (NCS) and a registered member of the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP).

I subscribe to and work within the NCS Code of Ethics and the BACP Ethical Framework, undertake regular professional development and supervision, and hold professional indemnity insurance.

My Approach to Couple Therapy

In my experience, couples usually try to resolve issues on their own before seeking counselling. They often find themselves stuck in the same arguments, struggling to break unhelpful cycles. By the time they attend therapy, many feel upset, angry, hurt, and overwhelmed by the pattern they are in.

How Couple Counselling Can Help

Couple counselling provides a safe and confidential space to talk about what is happening in your relationship. It helps both partners feel supported and understood.

I will work with you to:

• Understand your individual needs, as well as your needs as a couple.
• Identify repeating negative patterns that are causing unhappiness.
• Explore common issues such as affairs and infidelity, communication difficulties, unmet emotional needs, parenting differences, intimacy concerns, and ongoing conflict.

A Tailored, Integrative Approach

I use an integrative, person-centred approach, which means I tailor therapy to each couple’s unique situation. I may draw on different models, including Transactional Analysis (TA) and RIGAAR.

RIGAAR focuses on what is not working in a person’s life rather than what is “wrong” with them. This may involve recognising essential needs that are not being met, or inner resources that are not being fully used, and then helping you address this.

Understanding Patterns and Emotions

I help couples explore why difficulties such as depression, anxiety, or conflict might occur, and how to manage them more effectively. Together we look at:

• Why things happen the way they do.
• The effects of your words, actions, and behaviours.
• Practical ways to cope and change unhelpful patterns of relating.
• When we develop greater self-awareness, we are better able to replace negative cycles with healthier thoughts, emotions, and behaviours.

What Clients Say

Couples often tell me that I am empathetic, authentic, and non-judgemental. They feel supported while exploring their world and valued as individuals as well as partners.

Hearing each other’s stories is an important part of the process. Supporting personal growth within the relationship also helps strengthen the couple as a whole. When both partners feel balanced and understood, there is a greater sense of peace, harmony, and wellbeing.

👉 If you would like to make an appointment with Sara O’Donnell for relationship counselling in West Malling or online, please [click here] or use the Book Now button below.

Daniella Smith

Couples Counsellor Aylesford

Daniella — Couples Counsellor
Location: Relationship Counselling Kent, Aylesford
NCS Accredited | Level 5 Diploma in Psychotherapeutic Counselling | NHS Counsellor & Wellbeing Coach

Quick Summary: Here’s a short introduction to Daniella and how she can help — you can read more about her below.

Daniella is an experienced and down-to-earth couples counsellor offering therapy in Aylesford. Accredited by the National Counselling Society and with years of experience in both private practice and the NHS, she supports couples through a wide range of relationship issues, from communication breakdown and loss of intimacy to infidelity and emotional disconnection. Daniella creates a safe, equal space where both partners feel heard and understood. She’s also trained in sex and intimacy issues, including changes linked to ageing and hormonal shifts. Her goal is to help you reconnect, rebuild trust, and find a more positive way forward.

👉 Request an appointment with Daniella at Relationship Counselling Kent – Aylesford

More from Daniella..

Hello, my name is Daniella and I am an experienced Couple Counsellor based at Relationship Counselling Kent’s Aylesford practice. I’m fully qualified and hold a level 5 Professional Diploma in ‘Psychotherapeutic Therapy’.  I am also accredited by the NCS (National Counselling Society) therefore bound by their professional and ethical standards.

I have been in private practice for a number of years, providing therapy for both couples and individuals. Alongside working as an NHS Counsellor and Wellbeing Coach.

About relationships

We all need help at certain times in our lives. However, admitting to needing help with our relationships is something people often find difficult and view as a ‘failure’. This is often because they believe that they ‘should’ be able to sort things out for themselves. However, asking for professional relationship help actually shows great strength, not weakness. In my experience, couples always report that they wish they had sought relationship help much sooner.

Human beings are complex and we all have different emotional needs. Having our needs met is important in order for us to feel safe and content within relationships. However, when our relationship runs in to difficulty it can have a great impact on our mental health and wellbeing.

Perhaps your relationship has experienced a shift and things aren’t working as well as they used to be. Or maybe communication between you has diminished or there are changes in your sex life. Sometimes couples are unsure as to when and why the problems in their relationship began but it may have gone on for a number of years.

Life experiences such as bereavement, infidelity, the loss of job or health problems can have a negative impact on our relationships, all of which can leave you feeling lonely, undesirable, insecure and lost. The relationship then can become a battle-ground of stored-up resentment and unkind words.

Maybe you feel your relationship would benefit from you both being able to talk openly, ideally without filtering your feelings about the other person. It can be incredibly empowering to be heard and accepted within our closest relationships.

My approach to couple counselling

I believe we would all benefit from knowing we have a “safe space” to speak to somebody who is unbiased, supportive and understanding. My aim is to ensure that my genuine down-to-earth approach will enable you both to feel comfortable enough to open about what is going on for you in your relationship.

I will not take sides or pass judgement or attribute ‘blame’ in anyway. Instead, I will ask you all the right questions in order to understand what is not working as well as you would like it to, from both your points of view. Whilst helping you both listen to and try and understand each other’s perspectives.

Your reason for seeking relationship counselling might be to “re-boot” your relationship, so you have a happier, more fulfilling future together. I will do everything to ensure you both feel safe and heard. The counselling space is an equal opportunity for you to share how you feel and why and hopefully able to see things from the other person’s perspective.

I will then help you learn new, more effective communication tools and strategies. These will be around increasing kindness and respect for each other by making only relatively small changes.

Sex & Intimacy Issues

In addition to being trained in working with couples, I have undertaken additional training on discussing sex and intimacy with clients (both in couples sessions and individual sessions). I am also trained in Sex, Arousal and Ageing. This means I am confident and comfortable discussing some of the intimate issues couples may have, including but not limited to, variations in libido (sex drive); erectile dysfunction; vaginismus; hormonal changes and the effects on sex.

A positive relationship counselling experience can, amongst other things: –

Increase self-esteem
Improve intimacy between you
Improve your feelings of self-worth in the relationship
Help you both recognise and reduce negative and self-sabotaging behaviour
Leave you feeling more comfortable asking for your needs to be met within the relationship.

Alternatively. perhaps one or both parties feel a separation is inevitable and want help in doing so more amicably. As a neutral person I will support you in doing so whilst maintaining respect and compassion for each other.

As an accredited member of NCS I subscribe to their code of ethics. This includes undertaking continuous professional development and clinical supervision.

If you would like to make an appointment to see Daniella for couples counselling then please contact her via Relationship Counselling Kent today. Request an appointment

Janine Knight

Online Couple Counselling

Janine Knight — Couples Counsellor
Location: Relationship Counselling Kent, Online via Zoom
Relate Trained | BACP Registered | Specialist in Online Couple Therapy

Quick Summary: Here’s a short introduction to Janine and how she can help — you can read more about her below.

Janine is an experienced Relate-trained couples counsellor offering therapy online via Zoom. Calm, down-to-earth, and easy to talk to, she creates a supportive space where both partners can be heard. Janine specialises in helping couples improve communication, navigate conflict, and understand the deeper dynamics behind recurring issues. She works with all types of relationships and brings a warm, compassionate style to sessions, drawing on her former career as an NHS midwife and her extensive counselling training. Whether you’re feeling stuck, struggling to connect, or facing the possibility of separation, Janine will help you find clarity and a way forward.

👉 Book an appointment with Janine for Online Couples Counselling

More from Janine…

Hello, my name is Janine Knight and I am an experienced ‘Relate’ qualified counsellor  specialising in online couple counselling for couples and individuals.  I am registered with the BACP (British Association of Counsellors and Psychotherapists) and experienced in working with a diverse range of relationship issues.

If you are in a relationship which does not feel right or you are struggling to reach compromises, resolve conflict or suppressing feelings of unhappiness, then relationship counselling can help.

My approach to online counselling is caring and empathetic. This means I will not judge you but rather enable you both to understand your relationship better and work through the issues that are troubling you.  I create a trusting, therapeutic relationship to enable you to gain new understanding and insights around what is not working in your life.

I was previously a registered Midwife working within the NHS and was drawn to the psychological aspects of care, talking to and understanding people’s experiences, often providing support following trauma.  My midwifery experience gave me many useful skills that I bring to my counselling role. I am a calm and positive person and I find it easy to relate to people.

Why choose me as your counsellor?

Relationship therapy is my specialist area and I am passionate about the job I do! I also understand how hard it can be to take that first step into couple counselling, because opening up to a stranger about the personal details in your life might feel a little daunting. Couples tell me that I quickly put them at ease which allows them to relax and engage in the therapy.

My communication style is friendly, relatable and down to earth and I have experience with every type of relationship, including different sexualities, ages, genders and cultural backgrounds.

Online Couple Counselling

I will provide you with a safe, confidential space where you can both share your thoughts and feelings about each other in a structured and meaningful way. At the start we will explore what you both hope to achieve from therapy. You may require help to understand each other more and make the relationship work better. Or perhaps have decided to separate and need help to do so more amicably. You may not know for sure what you want or you might be in very different places. That’s okay, I  will help you find clarity.

 My Approach to Online Couples Counselling

Relationships require effort to remain healthy and couples don’t necessarily know how to do that work, particularly when problems arise.  Couple counselling helps you gain new emotional tools to navigate the next chapter in your lives more positively.

Together we will explore how individual patterns of behaviour might be negatively impacting your relationship. This is  because people are often unaware of how their reactions affect their partner. Couples often report having the same arguments over and over again without understanding their own role in this dynamic.

By identifying unhelpful behaviour ssuch as criticism, blame or shutting down, couples gain more insight into each other’s responses and where they come from. People may seek relationship counselling for many reasons but poor communication is usually the most common.

My Professional Qualifications

• Level 5 Diploma in Relationship Counselling (CPCAB with Relate)
• Level 4 Diploma in Relationship Counselling (CPCAB with Relate)
• Foundation Certificate in Psychodynamic Counselling (The Counselling Centre, Tunbridge Wells)
• Mediation Skills Certificates (voluntary work at Maidstone Mediation Centre)
• Diploma of Higher Education in Midwifery Practice (Kings College University of London)
• BSc (hons) Sociology

I work within the professional ethical boundaries of my registering body, the BACP. My membership number is 00927492.  I have regular supervision (group and individual) and I am committed to continuous professional development.  I am also fully insured with an enhanced DBS certificate.

If you would like to make an appointment to see Janine for online couple counselling. Then please contact her via Relationship Counselling Kent today. Click  Booking Request

Jo Walmsley

Marriage Counselling Sittingbourne

Jo Walmsley – Integrative Counsellor & Couples Counsellor

Location: Marriage Counselling Sittingbourne (Teynham) | NCS Accredited

Quick Summary: Here’s a short introduction to Jo and how she can help — you can read more about her below.

Jo is a warm, down-to-earth counsellor with extensive experience helping couples rebuild, repair, and strengthen their relationships. Based in Teynham, near Sittingbourne, she offers a supportive and confidential space for couples to explore challenges, improve communication, and reconnect.

As a professionally trained Integrative Counsellor, Jo draws on different approaches to suit each unique situation. She is also a trained life coach, combining therapeutic insight with practical tools to help couples move forward.

Clients describe Jo as approachable, empathic, and easy to talk to — someone who creates a safe space where nothing feels taboo.

👉 Book an appointment with Jo at Marriage Counselling Sittingbourne

More from Jo

My name is Jo and I am a fully qualified Integrative Counsellor, based at Marriage Counselling Sittingbourne. My practice is in Teynham, which is easily accessible from Faversham, the Isle of Sheppey, and Maidstone. I am an Accredited Member of the National Counselling Society (NCS).

As an integrative counsellor, I take a combined approach to therapy. This means I draw on different elements from specific counselling theories, as there is no single approach that works for everyone.

I have extensive experience in couples counselling as well as working as a clinical supervisor. My role is to support you in rebuilding, repairing, and re-bonding your relationship. If required, I can also help facilitate the end of a relationship in as respectful and amicable a way as possible.

My Background and Experience

I have worked with a wide variety of issues through private practice, agency work, and five years within the NHS IAPT (Improving Access to Psychological Therapies) service.

This experience has shown me the importance of effective communication in relationships. I also have in-depth knowledge of how difficulties such as sexual desire or dysfunction, long-term health conditions, domestic abuse, anxiety, depression, and anger can impact couples.

I have seen and heard most things, so there is nothing taboo. I’m not easily shocked or embarrassed — if you need to talk about it, I am here to listen.

How I Can Help

At the core of any successful therapy is the relationship between counsellor and client. I strive to build a trusting, empathic relationship with you and provide a safe, confidential space to talk through your issues.

In our work together, I will help you:

• Understand how past experiences may influence your current beliefs and behaviours.
• Recognise when beliefs have become unhealthy or unhelpful in your relationship.
• Explore how your early years and background impact the way you relate to your partner.
• Find healthier ways of communicating and connecting.

By increasing awareness of yourself and your partner, and by developing new communication skills, you will be better equipped to move forward and create a happier, healthier relationship.

I will tailor my approach to your unique situation. As I am also a trained life coach, I may use these skills alongside therapy to help you manage life more effectively, maximise your potential, and achieve your goals.

About Me

If you are considering sharing your thoughts and emotions with me, it feels right to share a little of myself too.

I am a down-to-earth person with a sarcastic sense of humour and my own life experiences, including some personal challenges. Like everyone, I have my struggles, but I get through them with a smile and sometimes a few expletives (#counsellorwhoswears).

I love to laugh and look for the positive in every situation. It hasn’t always been this way — I have had times when life felt overwhelming — but I came through them. These experiences fuel my passion to help others through their own difficult times.

Ethical Standards

I subscribe to and work within both the BACP and NCS Codes of Ethics, undertaking regular professional development and supervision. I also hold full professional indemnity insurance.

Types of Therapy Offered

• Couples Counselling
• Marriage Counselling
• Relationship Counselling
• Individual Therapy
• Integrative Counselling
• Life Coaching Support

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Dr Tim Burns

Marriage Counselling Whitstable

My name is Dr Tim Burns. I’m a fully qualified relationship counsellor based at marriage counselling Whitstable. My training at ‘Tavistock Relationships’ led to me becoming an accredited practitioner in couple therapy for depression. Alos a BSc and MSc in psychology and a postgraduate diploma in ‘Integrative Psychotherapy’ for individual counselling.

My Experience

I have worked in the field of adult mental health for almost 15 years. The majority of which was within primary care mental health services. Alongside my own private work with couples.

Couples bring a variety of issues into therapy. For instance, infidelity, sexual difficulties, issues related to physical and mental wellbeing. In addition to, difficulties in work/life balance and managing each partners expectations of the relationship.

I have broad therapeutic experience which I draw upon to enrich my work. I have experience working with a diverse range of couples. Including those from differing socio-economic and cultural backgrounds. Through to same sex couples or where one or both have transitioned. I have worked with couples in the early stages of their relationship to those having been together for many decades.

How I can help

I provide a safe and supportive and non-judgemental space for you to talk through your issues. I will seek to build improved communication and understanding between you. My approach will allow you both the opportunity to explore your individual attachment styles. Above all, you will be provided the time to communicate your needs whilst building empathy and tolerance towards each other.

Ethical Standards

I subscribe to and work within the ethical frameworks of both the BPS and the BACP. Alongside undertaking regular professional development and supervision. I also hold full professional indemnity insurance.

If you would like to make an appointment to come and see me at Marriage Counselling Whitstable. Please contact me via Relationship Counselling Kent today. Request to see Tim

Kay Doherty

Online Couple Counsellor

My name is Kay Doherty and I am a fully qualified couple counsellor at ‘Relationship Counselling Kent’.  I have a Higher Diploma in Relationship Counselling and an Externship in ‘Emotionally Focused Therapy’.  I am also a member of the BACP (British Association of Counselling and Psychotherapy).

My specialist area is relationship counselling, offering counselling to both heterosexual and same sex individuals and couples. I feel alive when new couples come with their individual issues, because each couple’s situation is so different. Working alongside couples as they develop a more secure base and a deeper connection with each other is extremely rewarding.

What is Emotionally Focused Relationship Therapy

Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) was founded in Canada by Dr. Sue Johnson and is now practised worldwide.  It provides therapists with researched based tools that will enable a couple to feel connected and safe, through secure attachment.  EFT asserts that relationship problems occur when couples have experienced emotional disconnection with their partner  – which, in turn leads to struggles in the relationship. These struggles can develop into negative cycles which are difficult to break.  EFT will support you to get past these cycles, re-connect and build a secure relationship bond together. EFT can also be used to address individual issues.

How an online couple counsellor can help you

During our first session I will I explain how online relationship therapy works. I will also talk about confidentiality and my method of storing files/notes etc answering any questions you might have. This will also be your opportunity to tell me about the issues that you each feel need addressing – from both perspectives. Then together, we will discuss a plan going forward.

As a ‘Person Centered’ counsellor I believe each individual knows exactly what is best for them, on an individual level and within the relationship. Then, with the proper support, I will help you find the ability to heal yourselves.  I consider myself to be non-judgemental and accept people for who they are and how they feel. I understand the need for empathy and will take the time to get to know where you both are in the relationship. By allowing you both the time and space to listen and really ‘hear’ each other will bring great insight into the relationship.

‘Emotionally Focused Therapy’ has equipped me with the skills to assist you in exploring any recurring, negative patterns in your relationship. I will support you in learning new patterns of communicating and help you achieve a healthy, secure bond.

The process of change during our relationship counselling sessions can be transforming; and it will enable you to reach a place where you really ‘get’ each other.  Moving your relationship forward more positively in the way you have chosen to do so.

After the couple therapy ends

I will have helped you develop the skills required to be aware and recognise how a particular behaviour might lead to you slipping back into the negative cycle again.  This will allow you the negative cycle into positive interactions.  You will be able to fully understand each other and feel re connected again. The negative cycle will be replaced with love, understanding and security.

Ethical Standards

I subscribe to and work within the BACP ethical framework.  I regularly partake in professional development, have regular supervision and hold professional indemnity insurance.

If you are looking for an online couple counsellor and would like to make an appointment to see Kay. Then please contact her via Relationship Counselling Kent today. Booking Request

Tracey Neale

Online Couples Therapy

Hello, my name is Tracey Neale and I’m an experienced, BACP accredited (British Association Counselling and Psychotherapy) ‘Integrative Counsellor’ offering online couples therapy for Relationship Counselling Kent for both couples and individuals.

‘Integrative counselling’ means I use different therapeutic models depending, on each couple’s individual needs, or where they are in their therapeutic journey. This approach enables me to work with flexibility, tailoring my therapy for your unique situation.

How I can help

With over ten years’ experience counselling couples I will help you improve the communication between you. Firstly, through achieving a better understanding of any unresolved issues alongside exploring the complexities within your relationship. Secondly, I will gently challenge any negatives beliefs or patterns of behaviour that might be having a detrimental effect on your relationship.

My aim is to ensure you both feel comfortable enough to open up on both an honest, intimate level. This is will be achieved by providing you the time and space, not only to talk, but to really listen. The safety of the therapy room will hopefully encourage honesty and the opportunity to understand the issues from each other’s point of view.

By supporting you both through change, means you can begin to look towards a more positive future. When you invest time and energy into your counselling experience, it can be a positive step which brings about positive change.

My approach is non-judgmental and empathic. Most importantly, I respect every couples right to confidentiality.

Ethical Standards

I subscribe to and work within the UKCP code of ethics and the BACP ethical framework. I also undertake regular professional development and supervision as well as having professional indemnity insurance.

If you would like to book an appointment to see Tracey for online couples therapy. Then please contact her via Relationship Counselling Kent today. Request to see Tracey