It’s natural for relationships to go through lulls where the level of intimacy or excitement isn’t the same as it once was. One of our therapists at couple therapy Bromley have offered some steps you can take on how to reconnect with your partner in order to feel closer again. Allow yourself to be vulnerable …
Warning signs that you might need couple therapy A question our relationship counsellors are often asked is “How will we know if we need couple therapy?” If you are a in a relationship, then it’s more than likely, that occasionally, you will experience problems. This is completely healthy and anyone who claims to have never …
Relationship Problems When people search relationship problems Canterbury it can be for a wide variety of reasons. However, the following are some of the more common problems that people often seek relationship help. No relationship is perfect. And if a couple claim that theirs is, then they are probably not being honest with themselves or …
Problems in your relationship? You certainly don’t need to wait until there are big issues in your relationship in order to seek some help at couple counselling Bromley. Taking action early can help resolve any problems before they get out of hand and resentment starts to set in. It’s all too easy to try and …
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Relationship Counselling Kent One question we are often asked at Marriage Guidance Kent is “Why do people so many people consider the idea of relationship counselling to be so daunting, when the benefits are so great?” When our physical health is called into question, we instantly seek out the helping hand of our local GP. …
Fear of leaving a relationship Our couple counsellors at marriage counselling Tonbridge find it’s common for people to be in an unhappy relationship but decide not to end it. This is often through a fear of being lonely or the fear of not meeting anyone else. This is often one of the reasons that bring …
Communication in relationships Our relationship counsellors at Marriage Counselling Bexley cannot emphasise enough the importance of couples taking the time to effectivley communicate. However, it’s common for couples to fail to recognise that the reason their relationship has run into trouble is because their communication style is poor. Good communication is an important part of …
The finger of blame When couples seek relationship help Gravesend they are often complaining about how their partner treats them. They firmly believe it’s them that is stopping them from being happy by being ‘thoughtless’ ‘critical’ ‘irresponsible’ or ‘complacent’. Resulting in the belief they are forced to take control, demand attention and stand up for …
The stale relationship One of the most common reason that bring couples to marriage counselling Gravesend is because their relationship has become stale. Especially if they have been together for a number of years. Similarly, there are no recently discovered affairs or out of control arguments or commonly unacceptable behaviour on either side. Likewise, there …
No one enjoys feeling jealous or insecure, even though jealousy is an emotion that almost all of us will experience at one point or another. The problem with jealousy isn’t that it comes up from time to time, it’s when we don’t get hold of it. It can be frightening to experience what happens when we allow our jealousy to overpower us or to shape the way we feel about ourselves and the world around us.
For Julie and I, counselling was an opportunity for change. We knew we were stuck and needed the time, the tools, the space, the bravery and impetus to begin the process of change.
Tim gave us what we needed and at a pace we could manage. Tim joined with us in our exploration so the Julie-and- I duo became a trio with Tim; working together to resolve our issues.
After each session we felt empowered to take away what we had discussed so that we may consider this in greater depth in our own time.
He was never the passive wall or mirror (which would have irritated and blocked our learning) but an active participant in our striving to move forward .
Clive and Julie
