Kobe Akanmu

Relationship Counselling Dartford

My name is Kobe and I’m an experienced Psychotherapeutic Counsellor specialising in relationship therapy for couples and individuals. I offer a safe, supportive and confidential space for you to explore your unique issues in order to find a path forward. Imhave a MSc Psychology, a Higher Diploma in Psychotherapeutic Counselling and Professional Certificate in Relationship Counselling.

Perhaps you and your partner struggling to communicate effectively, or maybe you are caught in a cycle of misunderstanding, hurt and resentment. If so, you’re not alone. Relationship challenges are incredibly common. However, they don’t have to define or destroy your bond or emotional well-being.

I certainly don’t believe in a one-size-fits-all approach to therapy. Instead, I will empower you as a unit to achieve your relationship goals. Whether that’s reigniting a lost spark between you, resolving long-standing conflicts or help in separating more amicably.  Or perhaps you are looking for clarity on the direction you would like your relationship to take.

During couple therapy sessions I use the ‘Person-Centred Approach’. which means, my focus is on the care and needs of you as individuals, as well as part of a couple. I’ll help you both rediscover the art of effective communication. We may well delve into your past experiences and life events, which might be a contributory factor to the disconnect. Hopefully, this will foster greater understanding and empathy between you.

In my opionion. effective communication is the cornerstone of all healthy relationships. Therefore, we will work together to help you develop the skills to express yourself clearly, listen deeply, and navigate even the toughest conversations with compassion and respect.

Qualifications

• Professional Certificate in Relationship Counselling (The Centre of Thriving Relationships)
• Higher Diploma in Psychotherapeutic Counselling
• MSc Psychology (London Kingston University)
• BSc Sociology (London Southbank University)
• Level 3 in Psychotherapeutic Counselling
• Level 5 in Designed Safeguarding Lead
• Level 3 in Working with Children and Young People

Background/experience

My professional journey began with hands-on experience as an unqualified Social Worker. where I supported various councils in the London and Kent. A significant part of my career has been dedicated to nurturing the mental well-being of children and young individuals. In this capacity, I collaborated closely with families, educational institutions, and multidisciplinary agencies, ensuring a comprehensive approach to promoting mental health

Parallel to my professional endeavours, I embraced the role of a volunteer mentor at a Christian organisation. This broadened my perspective and enriched my understanding of diverse communities. Driven by a desire for continuous growth, I completed a Level 3 qualification in Psychotherapy and Counselling. This educational journey not only enhanced my skills but also ignited a profound interest in supporting vulnerable groups., equipping me with the necessary tools to provide compassionate and comprehensive care.

Ethical Standards – Adhering to the highest professional standards set forth by NCPS and BACP, I maintain strict adherence to their ethical guidelines. Furthermore, I prioritise ongoing supervision and Continual Professional Development (CPD) to continuously enhance my skills and knowledge. This unwavering commitment ensures that the service I provide to my clients is of the utmost quality, enabling me to offer the best possible support throughout our therapeutic journey.

How I can help you

• Numerous clients have told me that my warm, approacable and understanding nature fosters an environment that is conducive to open and honest conversation. I understand that it can feel quite daunting to seek help for your relationship. However, I strive to create a calm, open and supportive space – free from judgement or bias.
• I provide a safe haven for you to openly explore your thoughts, emotions and experiences, without fear of judgment. Together, we will work towards developing a deeper understanding of one another’s perspectives and personal experiences,. Along with cultivating strategies to navigate challenges as a couple.
• I  will guide you in developing active listening skills, enabling you to truly hear and comprehend each other’s perspectives and create a deeper sense of connection and intimacy.
• We will collaborate to equip you both with effective strategies to navigate conflicts, differences, and/or personal obstacles in a structured and safe manner. By promoting constructive dialogue and self-reflection, our goal is to lay the foundation for a healthy, fulfilling relationship built on mutual understanding and respect which allows you to reconnect
• Our sessions will take place in a comfortable and non-judgmental space. Where you will be encouraged to express your thoughts, feelings, and vulnerabilities openly. I will ensure that both iof you feel heard, respected, and valued throughout our time together, empowering you to strengthen.

Types of therapy offered

• Couple Therapy
• Marriage Counselling
• Relationship Counselling
• Counselling for Depression
• Counselling for Anxiety
• Person-Centered Therapy
• Bereavement/Loss Counselling
• Family Therapy
• Christian Counselling
• Children and Young People Counselling
• Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT)

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