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Louise Malyan

Couple Therapy Tunbridge Wells (Brenchley)

Hello, my name is Louise, and I am a fully qualified therapist specialising in couples and individual counselling. I hold a degree in counselling, a Level 4 Diploma in Therapeutic Counselling and an accreditation with the National Counselling & Psychotherapy Society (NCPS)

I bring over 20 years of frontline experience in the emergency services, along with a deep passion for counselling and a wealth of lived experience. In every session, I bring my authentic self and genuinely care about helping clients. Whether I am guiding couples to strengthen their relationship or supporting them through an amicable separation, I create a space where both individuals feel heard, supported, and validated.

Relationships often present challenges, and managing them isn’t something we’re taught in school. If you and your partner feel stuck in repetitive arguments, struggle with trust, or feel disconnected, it can be overwhelming. I help couples and individuals overcome these challenges in a supportive and straightforward way. My approach creates a safe space for both of you to feel understood. Together, we will address your concerns and work toward a resolution that strengthens your connection.

My approach to couple therapy

I don’t believe in a one-size-fits-all approach because every couple is unique. That’s why I use a combination of practical tools, open and honest conversations, and creative techniques to help you reconnect, improve communication, and move forward together.

I’ve worked with many couples navigating difficult times—whether they’re struggling to communicate, rebuilding trust after infidelity, or dealing with the impact of past trauma, addiction, or ongoing conflict. Relationships can stir up a range of emotions, and often, patterns from our pasts influence how we connect with our partners today.

With extensive training in areas such as addiction, neurodivergence in couples, infidelity, trauma, communication, and inner child work, I help couples uncover what’s really happening beneath the surface. Together, we work on practical tools you can carry forward into the future. My approach is straightforward, supportive, down-to-earth, and occasionally creative—because not everything can be resolved through talking alone!

I offer both face to face and sessions online via Zoom in a peaceful setting. I create a relaxed and welcoming environment—always with a cup of coffee and a biscuit on hand—where you can feel comfortable opening up.

Qualifications

• Counselling Degree
• Couples Counselling Certificate
• CPCAB Level 4 Diploma integrative therapeutic counselling
• CPCAB Level 3 Counselling studies
• CPCAB Level 2 Counselling skills
• Therapeutic Group facilitation
• Creative counselling Interventions
• Addiction Therapy
• Inner child counselling
• Trauma Counselling

Background & Experience

Before becoming a counsellor, I spent 20 years on the front lines of emergency services, supporting individuals in crisis and witnessing the profound impact of trauma, addiction, and mental health challenges on both individuals and their relationships. I have also worked in rehabilitation settings, helping people recover from addiction, rebuild trust, manage shame, and develop healthier coping strategies. Additionally, I have mentored and supported individuals with ADHD, gaining a deep understanding of how neurodivergence can affect emotional regulation, relationships, and self-esteem.

Alongside my professional experience, I bring something equally valuable—lived experience. I’m not just trained to understand trauma; I’ve lived it. As a survivor, I know what it’s like to feel lost, question your worth, and carry the weight of past struggles. I also know that healing is possible.

As a sober, neurodivergent counsellor, I bring a unique perspective to my work. I understand first-hand the challenges of addiction, the toll it takes on relationships, and the transformative journey of recovery. My approach isn’t just rooted in theory—it’s grounded in real, compassionate, and down-to-earth support from someone who truly understands.

How I can help you

• Get to the root of arguments and break unhealthy patterns
  Understand the underlying causes of recurring conflicts and learn how to address them in a healthier, more productive way. Together, we’ll identify what’s keeping you stuck and work on breaking negative cycles.
• Rebuild trust and connection while improving self-esteem and self-worth
  Whether it’s rebuilding trust after betrayal or reconnecting after a difficult period, I’ll guide you in creating a stronger, more secure bond. Alongside this, we’ll work on boosting self-esteem and self-worth to improve your relationship from the inside out.
• Improve communication so both partners feel heard and validated
  Good communication is key to any successful relationship. I’ll help you and your partner express yourselves more effectively, ensuring you both feel understood. You’ll also gain practical tools to improve communication and maintain progress long term.
• Strengthen emotional and physical intimacy
  Rekindle the emotional and physical closeness in your relationship. We’ll explore ways to deepen your connection and create a more fulfilling partnership on every level.
• Manage external stresses that affect your relationship
  Work through external pressures—like work, family, or financial stress—that may be impacting your relationship. Together, we’ll develop strategies to protect and prioritise your partnership despite these challenges.

Types of therapy offered

• Couple therapy
• Marriage counselling
• Relationship counselling
• Addiction focused couples’ therapy
• Trauma informed counselling
• Communication and confliction resolution support
• Inner child healing
• Walk and talk sessions
• Online couples’ therapy
• Individual support for relationship concerns
• Sexual abuse survivor counselling
• Personality disorder Support
• ADHD support
• Trauma counselling
• Creative therapy
• Individual addiction support

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