Relationship Counsellor UK: Couples Therapy & Support
Find a BACP-registered relationship counsellor in the UK for support with conflict, emotional avoidance, and neglect. Our Kent-based and online therapists are ready to help.
- 48h
- Typical time to first session
- £68
- Individual 60-minute session
- 0
- Waiting list
- Kent
- Practices across the county
Welcome
Professional Relationship Counselling: Navigating Conflict & Connection
Professional this approach offers a structured approach to address relationship issues. It moves beyond superficial arguments to explore deeper dynamics and patterns. Our BACP-registered therapists, such as Samantha Gibson, understand that conflict often masks unfulfilled needs or historical hurts. We help partners identify these underlying issues, empathy and mutual understanding.
For example, repeated arguments about minor household tasks might actually reflect deeper feelings of disrespect or an unequal distribution of responsibilities. A qualified this kind of therapy facilitates conversations that uncover these hidden meanings. This process allows couples to build new, healthier ways of interacting, rather than simply managing symptoms.
- Appointments available within days, with no GP referral required.
- Qualified, accredited therapists matched to your relationship.
- Face-to-face sessions or secure online video counselling.
- Transparent fees with no hidden registration charges.
What we help with
Addressing a Relationship Breakdown and Emotional Avoidance
A relationship breakdown often involves a cycle of emotional avoidance and reactive communication. One partner might withdraw, while the other pursues, creating distance and resentment. This can manifest as silence, defensiveness, or escalating arguments that leave both individuals feeling unheard. Our approach helps address "emotional avoidance in relationships".
Our therapists specialise in breaking these cycles. We help you recognise when emotional avoidance is happening. We then teach strategies for expressing needs and listening to your partner without immediate judgment. Ryan Anderson, a BACP-registered therapist, has over 15 years' experience supporting couples with communication issues and loss of trust. Working with a the work we do here provides the tools to address these dynamics head-on, preventing further erosion of the relationship.
How it works
How to Heal from Emotional Neglect in a Relationship
Emotional neglect can slowly erode intimacy and trust over time. This happens when partners consistently fail to respond to each other's emotional needs, leading to feelings of loneliness within the relationship. It is not always intentional but can stem from past experiences or poor communication habits.
Healing from emotional neglect involves rebuilding trust and learning to nurture each other's emotional well-being. Our therapists help couples identify where emotional needs are not being met. We guide you in expressing these needs clearly and constructively. This process can help reconstruct a sense of security and intimacy, as seen in the work of therapists like Jo Walmsley, who has 16 years' experience. This commitment to understanding and change helps relationships grow stronger.
Our approach
Local Support: Professional Couples Counsellor Kent Options
We offer both online and in-person this kind of therapy across the UK. For those in Kent, our dedicated teams serve various locations. You can find professional support in towns like Ashford, Tonbridge, Maidstone, Sevenoaks, and Sittingbourne. For example, Sara ODonnell offers sessions in West Malling (Wateringbury), and Trish Mayne practices in Faversham. Claire Draper also works in Erith, and Mark Reumel in Maidstone.
Our online services extend our reach beyond Kent, providing accessible relationship therapy wherever you are in the UK. This flexibility ensures that geographical location does not prevent you from finding the right this type of support to support your needs. Many clients find that working with a "therapy of this kind near me" is easier when online options are available.
Fees
Transparent Fees and our Simple Match Process
We believe in clear and simple pricing. Individual Counselling is £68 per 60-minute session. Couples Counselling is £80 per 60-minute session. These fees apply whether your sessions are online or in person. There are no additional assessment fees or hidden costs. This transparency applies to all our the work we do here services.
Our process to find a this approach is designed to be straightforward:
- Start "Find the Right Therapist for You" – answer a few short questions online about what you would like help with, whether you prefer online or in-person sessions, where you are based, and the days and times that suit you.
- See the therapists who match – you are shown matching therapists on this site with their real, live availability, so you choose rather than being allocated.
- Pick your therapist and your time – choose the slot you want from that therapist's own calendar.
- Confirm and pay securely online – you receive an email confirming the date, time and, for online sessions, your secure video link.
This approach ensures you select a this kind of therapy who meets your specific requirements. It gives you full control over your booking. You can use our Find the Right Therapist for You service.
If you are experiencing a mental health crisis, please contact the Samaritans on 116 123, NHS 111, or the emergency services on 999.
Last reviewed: 29 July 2026
Reviewed by: Jo Walmsley, BACP Registered Counsellor
“Andrew helped me and my partner work through some difficult issues and got us to a much more comfortable place. Love and trust restored. Thank Thank you Andrew!” — DS
No waiting list
Appointments usually within 48–72 hours
From £68
Individual sessions · £80 couples
Qualified therapists
BACP registered
Our therapists
Our Therapists In Counsellor Uk
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Samantha Gibson
Accredited therapist
Level 5 Diploma in Relationship CounsellingLevel 4 Diploma in Therapeutic CounsellingDartford
Samantha is a fully qualified relationship counsellor, trained with Relate and a registered member of the BACP. Based in Dartford, she provides a warm, supportive space for couples to move away from unhelpful patterns, improve communication, and rebuild trust and connection.
Her approach is calm, empathetic, and practical, helping couples strengthen self-awareness, manage conflict constructively, and create healthier ways of relating. Clients value her ability to listen without judgement and guide them towards lasting change.
Separation and divorce supportSupport for LGBTQ+ and queer relationshipsDifferences in values or life goalsRepeating unhealthy relationship patterns -
Sara ODonnell
Accredited therapist
Level 4 Diploma in Therapeutic CounsellingWest Malling (Wateringbury)
Sara is a compassionate and experienced therapist who works with both couples and individuals. She provides a safe and supportive space to explore relationship difficulties, break unhelpful negative cycles, and improve communication.
As an Accredited Member of the NCS and a Registered BACP Counsellor, Sara follows an integrative, person-centred approach, drawing on Transactional Analysis and Relational Life Therapy (RLT) techniques to suit each couple’s unique needs. Clients often describe her as empathetic and authentic, helping them feel truly heard, understood, and supported in making meaningful changes to their relationships.
Separation and divorce supportDifferences in values or life goalsRepeating unhealthy relationship patternsIntimacy and sexual difficulties -
Ryan Anderson
Accredited therapist
Level 4 Diploma in Therapeutic CounsellingWest Malling (Kings Hill)
Ryan is a warm and experienced relationship therapist offering sessions in Kings Hill and online. He supports couples and individuals facing communication issues, loss of trust, emotional distance, and recurring conflict.
Ryan's approach is structured, collaborative, and compassionate, helping partners move from tension and confusion towards clearer communication and a stronger sense of connection. Clients describe him as steady, respectful, and easy to talk to.
Separation and divorce supportConflict and frequent argumentsCommunication problems and not feeling heardLife transitions and big changes -
Trish Mayne
Accredited therapist
Level 5 Diploma in Relationship CounsellingFaversham
Trish is a fully qualified Relate-trained couples counsellor with a wealth of experience supporting relationships. She brings a common-sense, step-by-step, and non-judgemental approach to counselling, where you can explore difficulties, understand unhelpful patterns, and build stronger connections.
Trish is highly regarded by clients, regularly receiving five-star reviews, and is committed to helping couples strengthen their relationships with compassion and clarity.
She has a CPCAB Level 5 Diploma in Relationship Counselling
Parenting, finances, and family pressuresLife transitions and big changesConflict and frequent argumentsCommunication problems and not feeling heard -
Claire Draper
Accredited therapist
Level 4 Diploma in CounsellingErith
Claire is a compassionate and experienced couples counsellor based in Erith. With over 11 years’ experience, she provides a safe, calm space where partners can talk openly and feel equally heard. Claire supports couples to improve communication, rebuild emotional closeness, and work through challenges without judgement.
Whether you feel stuck, resentful, or unsure what the future holds, Claire will help you gain clarity and move forward in a way that feels right for you both.
Separation and divorce supportSupport for LGBTQ+ and queer relationshipsDifferences in values or life goalsRepeating unhealthy relationship patterns -
Mark Reumel
Accredited therapist
PGDip in PsychotherapyMaidstone
Mark is a warm and insightful relationship therapist with over a decade of experience supporting couples and individuals. Based in Maidstone, he offers a safe space to reconnect, improve communication, or separate more respectfully.
Drawing on approaches such as Transactional Analysis and Emotionally Focused Therapy, Mark helps couples reflect on patterns, build empathy, and move forward with clarity. Clients describe him as grounded, understanding, and skilled at helping both partners feel equally heard.
Mark is accredited by the NCPS (National Counselling and Psychotherapy Society)
Separation and divorce supportRepeating unhealthy relationship patternsIntimacy and sexual difficultiesFeeling distant, disconnected, or stuck
Credentials
Why clients trust us
- Fully confidential sessions
- BACP Ethical Framework Adherence
- No automated allocation — choose your own qualified specialist
- BACP (British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy)
- UKCP (UK Council for Psychotherapy)
- Specialist Couple Therapy Certification
FAQs
Frequently asked questions
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