Daniella Ellis

Daniella is an experienced and down-to-earth couples counsellor offering therapy in Aylesford. She supports couples through a wide range of issues, from communication breakdown and loss of intimacy to infidelity and emotional disconnection.

Daniella will create a safe, equal space where both partners feel heard and understood. Her goal is to help you achieve yours - whether that is to reconnect, repair, rebuild trust, or separate amicably.

Daniella is an accredited member of the National Counselling & Psychotherapy Society (NCPS)

Hello, my name is Daniella and I am an experienced couples counsellor based at Relationship Counselling Kent’s Aylesford practice. I hold a Level 5 Professional Diploma in Psychotherapeutic Counselling and I am accredited by the NCPS. Alongside private practice, I also worked as an NHS Counsellor and Wellbeing Coach.

I believe seeking relationship support is a sign of strength, not weakness. Many couples tell me they wish they had come sooner, as therapy helps them see issues more clearly, communicate openly, and feel understood.

I create a safe, supportive space where you can talk honestly without judgement. I will not take sides, but help you both feel equally heard while encouraging you to understand one another’s perspective. Together, we will explore what isn’t working and rebuild connection with kindness and respect.

In addition to couples counselling, I have specialist training in sex, intimacy, arousal, and ageing. I support couples in addressing sensitive issues such as libido changes, erectile dysfunction, or hormonal shifts, helping you work through concerns constructively and restore closeness.

Ethical Standards

As an accredited member of the National Counselling & Psychotherapy Society (NCPS), I work within their code of ethics. This includes continuous professional development, regular clinical supervision, and maintaining professional indemnity insurance.

I have been in private practice for a number of years, supporting both couples and individuals through a wide range of relationship challenges. Alongside this, I work as an NHS Counsellor and Wellbeing Coach, helping people manage emotional wellbeing in demanding circumstances.

My experience has shown me how life events such as bereavement, infidelity, health problems, or job loss can impact relationships, often leaving couples feeling disconnected, resentful, unheard and often, lonely. I have also supported clients facing changes in intimacy and sex, including those linked to ageing or hormonal shifts.

This combination of private practice and NHS work gives me a well-rounded understanding of the challenges people face and enables me to provide practical, compassionate support to couples from all walks of life.