Andrew Allan

Andrew is a warm and approachable couples counsellor with specialist training in psychosexual therapy. Based in Sevenoaks, he works with couples of all ages, backgrounds, and orientations, as well as individuals seeking relationship or intimacy support. He tailors his approach to each couple, helping partners explore past influences, improve communication, and strengthen closeness. He can also guide couples who choose to separate, ensuring the process is handled respectfully and amicably. Clients describe Andrew as supportive and understanding, creating a space where both partners feel equally heard.

Hello, my name is Andrew and I am a qualified therapist with an Advanced Diploma in Couples Counselling and a Certificate in Psychosexual Therapy. I have also completed a year's training with the internationally renowned Couples Institute. I am a registered member of the National Counselling Society (NCS).

I welcome couples of all ages, backgrounds, and orientations, as well as individuals seeking support with relationship challenges. My priority is to make therapy feel safe, comfortable, and constructive from the very beginning.

Coming to counselling can feel daunting, especially if it’s your first time. In our sessions, you’ll both have the space to be heard and to share your goals. Whether you feel overwhelmed by many issues or worry your concerns are too small, I believe every couple can benefit from therapy.

I don’t use a one-size-fits-all approach. Instead, I adapt to your needs, exploring how past experiences may shape your relationship while offering practical tools to improve communication, rebuild trust, and reconnect emotionally.

For some couples, therapy strengthens and deepens their bond. For others, it supports a respectful separation. Whatever your goals, I will be there with honesty, empathy, and professionalism.

I have dedicated my career to supporting couples and individuals with a wide range of relationship concerns. Alongside private practice in Sevenoaks, I have worked with people from diverse cultural, social, and personal backgrounds, including same-sex couples and those navigating major life changes.

My specialist qualification in psychosexual therapy means I can confidently support couples with issues around intimacy, desire, and sexual connection, as well as the emotional impact these concerns can bring. Many clients find it a relief to talk openly in a safe, supportive space where these sensitive topics can be explored without embarrassment or judgement.

Over the years, I have worked with couples facing challenges such as poor communication, infidelity, ongoing conflict, and loss of closeness. I have also supported couples choosing to separate, ensuring the process is handled with respect and care.