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    Andrew Allan, counsellor and psychotherapist
    Sevenoaks, TN13 1QT

    Andrew Allan

    Andrew is a warm and approachable couples counsellor with specialist training in psychosexual therapy. Based in Sevenoaks, he works with couples of all ages, backgrounds, and orientations, as well as individuals seeking relationship or intimacy support. He tailors his approach to each couple, helping partners explore past influences, improve communication, and strengthen closeness. He can also guide couples who choose to separate, ensuring the process is handled respectfully and amicably. Clients describe Andrew as supportive and understanding, creating a space where both partners feel equally heard.

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    Couples
    Male
    Sevenoaks, TN13 1QT
    English
    Individual £68 · Couples £80 / 60 min
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    About Andrew

    Hello, my name is Andrew and I am a qualified therapist with an Advanced Diploma in Couples Counselling and a Certificate in Psychosexual Therapy. I have also completed a year's training with the internationally renowned Couples Institute. I am a registered member of the National Counselling Society (NCS).

    I welcome couples of all ages, backgrounds, and orientations, as well as individuals seeking support with relationship challenges. My priority is to make therapy feel safe, comfortable, and constructive from the very beginning.

    Coming to counselling can feel daunting, especially if it’s your first time. In our sessions, you’ll both have the space to be heard and to share your goals. Whether you feel overwhelmed by many issues or worry your concerns are too small, I believe every couple can benefit from therapy.

    I don’t use a one-size-fits-all approach. Instead, I adapt to your needs, exploring how past experiences may shape your relationship while offering practical tools to improve communication, rebuild trust, and reconnect emotionally.

    For some couples, therapy strengthens and deepens their bond. For others, it supports a respectful separation. Whatever your goals, I will be there with honesty, empathy, and professionalism.

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    Meet Andrew

    Background & Experience

    I have dedicated my career to supporting couples and individuals with a wide range of relationship concerns. Alongside private practice in Sevenoaks, I have worked with people from diverse cultural, social, and personal backgrounds, including same-sex couples and those navigating major life changes.

    My specialist qualification in psychosexual therapy means I can confidently support couples with issues around intimacy, desire, and sexual connection, as well as the emotional impact these concerns can bring. Many clients find it a relief to talk openly in a safe, supportive space where these sensitive topics can be explored without embarrassment or judgement.

    Over the years, I have worked with couples facing challenges such as poor communication, infidelity, ongoing conflict, and loss of closeness. I have also supported couples choosing to separate, ensuring the process is handled with respect and care.

    How I Can Help

    We'll create a safe and balanced space where both partners feel genuinely heard, respected, and understood as we navigate your relationship together.

    I'll help you both develop practical skills to communicate more effectively and listen deeply, transforming conflict into opportunities for deeper connection.

    We'll explore underlying patterns and past experiences that may be influencing your current relationship dynamics, fostering profound insight and sustainable change.

    I'll guide you in rebuilding trust and reigniting intimacy, including sensitive support for psychosexual concerns to enhance your connection and sexual well-being.

    We'll work collaboratively to identify your relationship goals and cultivate the understanding and tools needed to foster lasting love and mutual respect.

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    Therapy Approaches

    Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)
    Integrative Couples Therapy
    General Couples Counselling
    Attachment Based Couples Therapy
    Developmental Model of Couples Therapy

    Problems I Help With

    Separation and divorce support
    Differences in values or life goals
    Repeating unhealthy relationship patterns
    Intimacy and sexual difficulties
    Feeling distant, disconnected, or stuck
    Deciding whether to stay together or separate
    Navigating long distance relationships
    Communication problems and not feeling heard
    Parenting, finances, and family pressures
    Jealousy and insecurity
    Conflict and frequent arguments
    Life transitions and big changes
    Trust issues and infidelity

    Qualifications

    • Advanced Diploma in Psychotherapeutic Counselling (Ad Dip PC)
    • Advanced Diploma in Couples Counselling
    • Diploma in Compulsive Sexual Behaviour

    Professional Memberships

    • National Counselling and Psychotherapy Society (NCPS)

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    Location

    Sevenoaks PracticeTN13 1QT

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    Client reviews for Andrew Allan

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    Andrew Allan, counsellor and psychotherapist
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    Andrew Allan

    “Professional! He know how to help for couples!”

    Medina
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    Andrew Allan, counsellor and psychotherapist
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    Andrew Allan

    “Andrew has been incredibly helpful in providing the tools for my husband and I to work through some issues we have been experiencing. We would recommend Andrew to couples seeking the same support.”

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    Andrew Allan

    “Andrew helped me and my partner work through some difficult issues and got us to a much more comfortable place. Love and trust restored. Thank you Andrew!”

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    Andrew Allan

    “Andrew is very good and professional. It was great working with him and recommendi”

    Kelly
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