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He actively listened, and tailored the sessions to what I wanted, which was a solutions-based approach, giving me pointers and suggestions to work on between sessions. I'd thoroughly recommend him.", "publisher": { "@type": "Organization", "name": "Relationship Counselling Kent" } }, { "@type": "Review", "name": "Review of Ryan Anderson", "reviewRating": { "@type": "Rating", "ratingValue": "5", "bestRating": "5", "worstRating": "1" }, "author": { "@type": "Person", "name": "James M" }, "itemReviewed": { "@type": [ "Organization", "ProfessionalService" ], "@id": "https://relationshipcounsellingkent.co.uk/#organization", "name": "Ryan Anderson", "url": "https://relationshipcounsellingkent.co.uk/therapists/ryan-anderson" }, "datePublished": "2026-08-04", "reviewBody": "Thank you for your very constructive advice. You were very easy to warm up to, and you moderated our therapy session with great care and professionalism. We really appreciate your support and guidance.", "publisher": { "@type": "Organization", "name": "Relationship Counselling Kent" } }, { "@type": "Review", "name": "Review of Ryan Anderson", "reviewRating": { "@type": "Rating", "ratingValue": "5", "bestRating": "5", "worstRating": "1" }, "author": { "@type": "Person", "name": "Kevin" }, "itemReviewed": { "@type": [ "Organization", "ProfessionalService" ], "@id": "https://relationshipcounsellingkent.co.uk/#organization", "name": "Ryan Anderson", "url": "https://relationshipcounsellingkent.co.uk/therapists/ryan-anderson" }, "datePublished": "2026-07-27", "reviewBody": "Talking to Ryan has been a wholly positive experience. I had my reservations going in, but from the first moment I felt safe to discuss and work through any problems I needed to with no judgement. Ryan’s help, advice and general guidance has had a hugely positive impact on my life through my thought processes and how I have been able to reflect, assess and deal with situations as they arise. If you are on the fence about speaking to someone, I don’t believe you will find anybody better in my opinion.", "publisher": { "@type": "Organization", "name": "Relationship Counselling Kent" } }, { "@type": "Review", "name": "Review of Ryan Anderson", "reviewRating": { "@type": "Rating", "ratingValue": "5", "bestRating": "5", "worstRating": "1" }, "author": { "@type": "Person", "name": "Ally" }, "itemReviewed": { "@type": [ "Organization", "ProfessionalService" ], "@id": "https://relationshipcounsellingkent.co.uk/#organization", "name": "Ryan Anderson", "url": "https://relationshipcounsellingkent.co.uk/therapists/ryan-anderson" }, "datePublished": "2026-07-21", "reviewBody": "Our session with Ryan was great, Ryan was very approachable and easy to talk to. We will be having more sessions soon!", "publisher": { "@type": "Organization", "name": "Relationship Counselling Kent" } } ] } ] --- [![Relationship Counselling Kent](/assets/logo-CYGB2Hyi.webp)](/) - [Home](/) - [What To Expect](/what-to-expect) - We Can Help With - [Our Therapists](/therapists) [Locations](/locations)- [Blog](/blog) - [Fees](/fees) - [FAQ](/faq) - [Reviews](/reviews) - [Contact](/contact) [Login](/auth)[Book Your Session](/find-your-therapist) 5.0 Rated Highly Qualified & Experienced Therapists Sessions Available Mon–Sun 8am–9pm [hello@relationshipcounsellingkent.co.uk ](mailto:hello@relationshipcounsellingkent.co.uk)[Call us: 01233 438 212 ](tel:+441233438212)[Book Now](/find-your-therapist) [Back to Therapists](/therapists) ![Ryan Anderson, counsellor and psychotherapist](https://rxvhnvwmfwrneowddnji.supabase.co/storage/v1/render/image/public/therapist-photos/26b9d36a-1c20-487e-9e30-150b9b60aaa4/pending_profile_1772656881323.jpeg?width=600&height=600&resize=cover&quality=75) West Malling (Kings Hill), ME19 4YU # Ryan Anderson Ryan is a warm and experienced relationship therapist offering sessions in Kings Hill and online. He supports couples and individuals facing communication issues, loss of trust, emotional distance, and recurring conflict.  Ryan's approach is structured, collaborative, and compassionate, helping partners move from tension and confusion towards clearer communication and a stronger sense of connection. Clients describe him as steady, respectful, and easy to talk to. Individual Couples Male West Malling (Kings Hill), ME19 4YU English Individual £68 · Couples £80 / 60 min [Book Appointment](/book/26b9d36a-1c20-487e-9e30-150b9b60aaa4)Share Profile View Ryan's Upcoming Availability 23 slots Next available: Sun 30 Aug · 12:30 ## View Ryan's Upcoming Availability Next available: Sun 30 Aug · 12:30 · next 2 weeks Step 1 — Choose how you would like to meet Required Face-to-Face In-person at West Malling (Kings Hill) Online Secure video session Times below update based on your choice. You can change this anytime during checkout. Step 2 — Pick a time Sun 30 Aug 12:30 Mon 31 Aug 13:0014:1515:3016:4518:00 Wed 2 Sep 11:3012:45 Thu 3 Sep 07:00 Fri 4 Sep 15:0016:15 Sat 5 Sep 10:0011:15 Tue 8 Sep 11:0014:1515:3016:45 Wed 9 Sep 12:3014:0015:15 Thu 10 Sep 08:0009:1516:30 In-person at West Malling (Kings Hill) ## About Ryan Hello, I’m Ryan Anderson, a qualified Counsellor and Therapist (MBACP). I specialise in helping couples who feel stuck or disconnected find clarity, understanding, and a more supportive way forward.  Whether you’re struggling with repeated arguments, uncertainty about your future together, or difficulty expressing your needs, I’ll guide you through these challenges in a calm and balanced way. My style is warm, structured, and tailored to your relationship. I draw on a range of therapeutic approaches so the work fits your specific needs, rather than expecting you to fit a model. I focus on helping you understand each other more deeply, reduce frustration, and rebuild closeness in a way that feels steady and respectful. I have experience supporting couples through infidelity, family pressures, grief, and addiction. I also help partners navigate challenges around intimacy, porn use, kink, and fetish in a safe and non-judgemental way. I work confidently with neurodivergent couples who have different emotional or communication styles. My aim is to create a space where both of you feel heard, understood, and supported as you move forward. I have regular CPD, follow BACP ethical guidelines, and I’m fully DBS and ICO registered. View Ryan's Upcoming Availability 23 slots Next available: Sun 30 Aug · 12:30 ## View Ryan's Upcoming Availability Next available: Sun 30 Aug · 12:30 · next 2 weeks Step 1 — Choose how you would like to meet Required Face-to-Face In-person at West Malling (Kings Hill) Online Secure video session Times below update based on your choice. You can change this anytime during checkout. Step 2 — Pick a time Sun 30 Aug 12:30 Mon 31 Aug 13:0014:1515:3016:4518:00 Wed 2 Sep 11:3012:45 Thu 3 Sep 07:00 Fri 4 Sep 15:0016:15 Sat 5 Sep 10:0011:15 Tue 8 Sep 11:0014:1515:3016:45 Wed 9 Sep 12:3014:0015:15 Thu 10 Sep 08:0009:1516:30 In-person at West Malling (Kings Hill) ## Meet Ryan ## Background & Experience Before becoming a therapist, I worked for many years in education, training, and senior leadership roles, supporting people to develop confidence, resilience, and wellbeing. This experience continues to shape how I work with couples today. For over ten years I have taken NHS referrals alongside my private practice. I’ve also had therapy myself, so I understand how important it is to feel safe and supported when opening up.  ## How I Can Help I will help you make sense of the patterns of thinking or behaviour that feel overwhelming right now We will explore practical methods to manage stress, anxiety, and low mood more effectively I will support you in finding healthier ways to cope with burnout, grief, and loss We will work together to help you feel more grounded, confident, and steady in your daily life I will help you gain clarity about the changes you want to make and provide a roadmap to move towards them We will maintain a calm and respectful space where you can talk openly and be understood View Ryan's Upcoming Availability 23 slots Next available: Sun 30 Aug · 12:30 ## View Ryan's Upcoming Availability Next available: Sun 30 Aug · 12:30 · next 2 weeks Step 1 — Choose how you would like to meet Required Face-to-Face In-person at West Malling (Kings Hill) Online Secure video session Times below update based on your choice. 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Step 2 — Pick a time Sun 30 Aug 12:30 Mon 31 Aug 13:0014:1515:3016:4518:00 Wed 2 Sep 11:3012:45 Thu 3 Sep 07:00 Fri 4 Sep 15:0016:15 Sat 5 Sep 10:0011:15 Tue 8 Sep 11:0014:1515:3016:45 Wed 9 Sep 12:3014:0015:15 Thu 10 Sep 08:0009:1516:30 In-person at West Malling (Kings Hill) ## Specialisations Psychosexual Therapy Neurodiversity in Relationships Polyamorous and Non Monogamous Relationships Gender Diversity in Relationships Fertility and Reproductive Challenges Addiction and Substance Use in Relationships ## Therapy Approaches Sex Therapy for Couples Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) Imago Relationship Therapy Integrative Couples Therapy Gottman Method Couples Therapy Trauma Informed Couples Therapy Cognitive Behavioural Couples Therapy (CBT for Relationships) Psychodynamic Couples Therapy General Couples Counselling Attachment Based Couples Therapy Systemic Couples Therapy Solution Focused Couples Therapy ## Problems I Help With Trust issues and infidelity Intimacy and sexual difficulties Repeating unhealthy relationship patterns Navigating long distance relationships Life transitions and big changes Support for LGBTQ+ and queer relationships Parenting, finances, and family pressures Jealousy and insecurity Relationship Problems Communication problems and not feeling heard Conflict and frequent arguments Feeling distant, disconnected, or stuck Deciding whether to stay together or separate Separation and divorce support Differences in values or life goals Pre-marital therapy and relationship preparation ## Qualifications - Level 4 Diploma in Therapeutic Counselling ## Professional Memberships - British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) View Ryan's Upcoming Availability 23 slots Next available: Sun 30 Aug · 12:30 ## View Ryan's Upcoming Availability Next available: Sun 30 Aug · 12:30 · next 2 weeks Step 1 — Choose how you would like to meet Required Face-to-Face In-person at West Malling (Kings Hill) Online Secure video session Times below update based on your choice. 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Take the first step — book a confidential session today. [Book a Session with Ryan](/book/26b9d36a-1c20-487e-9e30-150b9b60aaa4) ## Client reviews for Ryan Anderson Verified client feedback for Ryan Anderson. ![Ryan Anderson, counsellor and psychotherapist](https://rxvhnvwmfwrneowddnji.supabase.co/storage/v1/render/image/public/therapist-photos/26b9d36a-1c20-487e-9e30-150b9b60aaa4/pending_profile_1772656881323.jpeg?width=600&height=600&resize=cover&quality=75) Therapist reviewed Ryan Anderson “Ryan was brilliant really. He actively listened, and tailored the sessions to what I wanted, which was a solutions-based approach, giving me pointers and suggestions to work on between sessions. I'd thoroughly recommend him.” Chris G Verified client ![Ryan Anderson, counsellor and psychotherapist](https://rxvhnvwmfwrneowddnji.supabase.co/storage/v1/render/image/public/therapist-photos/26b9d36a-1c20-487e-9e30-150b9b60aaa4/pending_profile_1772656881323.jpeg?width=600&height=600&resize=cover&quality=75) Therapist reviewed Ryan Anderson “Thank you for your very constructive advice. You were very easy to warm up to, and you moderated our therapy session with great care and professionalism. We really appreciate your support and guidance.” James M Verified client ![Ryan Anderson, counsellor and psychotherapist](https://rxvhnvwmfwrneowddnji.supabase.co/storage/v1/render/image/public/therapist-photos/26b9d36a-1c20-487e-9e30-150b9b60aaa4/pending_profile_1772656881323.jpeg?width=600&height=600&resize=cover&quality=75) Therapist reviewed Ryan Anderson “Talking to Ryan has been a wholly positive experience. I had my reservations going in, but from the first moment I felt safe to discuss and work through any problems I needed to with no judgement. Ryan’s help, advice and general guidance has had a hugely positive impact on my life through my thought processes and how I have been able to reflect, assess and deal with situations as they arise. If you are on the fence about speaking to someone, I don’t believe you will find anybody better in my opinion.” Read more Kevin Verified client ![Ryan Anderson, counsellor and psychotherapist](https://rxvhnvwmfwrneowddnji.supabase.co/storage/v1/render/image/public/therapist-photos/26b9d36a-1c20-487e-9e30-150b9b60aaa4/pending_profile_1772656881323.jpeg?width=600&height=600&resize=cover&quality=75) Therapist reviewed Ryan Anderson “Our session with Ryan was great, Ryan was very approachable and easy to talk to. We will be having more sessions soon!” Ally Verified client Previous slide Next slide [Read all reviews](/reviews) [![Relationship Counselling Kent](/assets/logo-CYGB2Hyi.webp)](/) Professional relationship counselling services in Kent. 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