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Sevenoaks, TN13 1QT 

# Andrew Allan

Andrew is a warm and approachable couples counsellor with specialist training in psychosexual therapy. Based in Sevenoaks, he works with couples of all ages, backgrounds, and orientations, as well as individuals seeking relationship or intimacy support. He tailors his approach to each couple, helping partners explore past influences, improve communication, and strengthen closeness. He can also guide couples who choose to separate, ensuring the process is handled respectfully and amicably. Clients describe Andrew as supportive and understanding, creating a space where both partners feel equally heard.

Individual

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Sevenoaks, TN13 1QT 

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Individual £68 · Couples £80 / 60 min 

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## About Andrew

Hello, my name is Andrew and I am a qualified therapist with an Advanced Diploma in Couples Counselling and a Certificate in Psychosexual Therapy. I have also completed a year's training with the internationally renowned Couples Institute. I am a registered member of the National Counselling Society (NCS).

I welcome couples of all ages, backgrounds, and orientations, as well as individuals seeking support with relationship challenges. My priority is to make therapy feel safe, comfortable, and constructive from the very beginning.

Coming to counselling can feel daunting, especially if it’s your first time. In our sessions, you’ll both have the space to be heard and to share your goals. Whether you feel overwhelmed by many issues or worry your concerns are too small, I believe every couple can benefit from therapy.

I don’t use a one-size-fits-all approach. Instead, I adapt to your needs, exploring how past experiences may shape your relationship while offering practical tools to improve communication, rebuild trust, and reconnect emotionally.

For some couples, therapy strengthens and deepens their bond. For others, it supports a respectful separation. Whatever your goals, I will be there with honesty, empathy, and professionalism.

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## Meet Andrew

## Background & Experience

I have dedicated my career to supporting couples and individuals with a wide range of relationship concerns. Alongside private practice in Sevenoaks, I have worked with people from diverse cultural, social, and personal backgrounds, including same-sex couples and those navigating major life changes.

My specialist qualification in psychosexual therapy means I can confidently support couples with issues around intimacy, desire, and sexual connection, as well as the emotional impact these concerns can bring. Many clients find it a relief to talk openly in a safe, supportive space where these sensitive topics can be explored without embarrassment or judgement.

Over the years, I have worked with couples facing challenges such as poor communication, infidelity, ongoing conflict, and loss of closeness. I have also supported couples choosing to separate, ensuring the process is handled with respect and care.

## How I Can Help

We'll create a safe and balanced space where both partners feel genuinely heard, respected, and understood as we navigate your relationship together.

I'll help you both develop practical skills to communicate more effectively and listen deeply, transforming conflict into opportunities for deeper connection.

We'll explore underlying patterns and past experiences that may be influencing your current relationship dynamics, fostering profound insight and sustainable change.

I'll guide you in rebuilding trust and reigniting intimacy, including sensitive support for psychosexual concerns to enhance your connection and sexual well-being.

We'll work collaboratively to identify your relationship goals and cultivate the understanding and tools needed to foster lasting love and mutual respect.

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## Therapy Approaches

Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)

Integrative Couples Therapy

General Couples Counselling

Attachment Based Couples Therapy

Developmental Model of Couples Therapy

## Problems I Help With

Separation and divorce support

Differences in values or life goals

Repeating unhealthy relationship patterns

Intimacy and sexual difficulties

Feeling distant, disconnected, or stuck

Deciding whether to stay together or separate

Navigating long distance relationships

Communication problems and not feeling heard

Parenting, finances, and family pressures

Jealousy and insecurity

Conflict and frequent arguments

Life transitions and big changes

Trust issues and infidelity

## Qualifications

-   Advanced Diploma in Psychotherapeutic Counselling (Ad Dip PC) 
-   Advanced Diploma in Couples Counselling 
-   Diploma in Compulsive Sexual Behaviour 

## Professional Memberships

-   National Counselling and Psychotherapy Society (NCPS) 

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Next available: Sat 5 Sep · 09:00 · next 2 weeks

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Mon 7 Sep 

08:0009:1513:45

Tue 8 Sep 

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## Location

Sevenoaks Practice TN13 1QT 

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“Andrew has been incredibly helpful in providing the tools for my husband and I to work through some issues we have been experiencing. We would recommend Andrew to couples seeking the same support.”

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“Andrew helped me and my partner work through some difficult issues and got us to a much more comfortable place. Love and trust restored. Thank you Andrew!”

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